Homophobia at its most banal...
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1331297/posts?q=1&&page=1I think that a boy who grows up thinking what he does, will not be as bothered if one of the older boys puts an arm around him and tells him that he is really cute. He might even like it. He might be open to more. After all, to deny such an advance is homophobia and he has been taught to reject THAT feeling.
This is what it is all about... changing people's minds. Changing their natural instinct to be repulsed by a homosexual advance, and turning it into a learned instinct NOT to be repulsed by a homosexual advance.