Reply #126: someone puts on too much perfume. that is rude and i see it as

[seabeyond]

obnoxious, having been overwhelmed when preg and having to leave the restaurant, and no longer wanting the food i ordered. i dont advocate a march against perfume, not to mention create studies about the effects on my health.

a erson not taking a shower, rude anyway, not seeing it as necessarily obnoxious. i guess it would be the intent on human smelliness. laziness and just not caring, i could throw in obnoxious. unaware or unable. ..... no obnoxious.

we played smoke rings when i was a kid. it was fun. i can remember. parents young. early 60's. an unaware time. we didnt drop down and die. my kids are told today they will drop down and die. what a silly game today. no..... we hate the smoke. my kids would not drop down and die either. they just wouldnt. i assure you. i know this from personal experience

i think it is pretty clear i would not advocate anyone smoking. i think you probably know htis. hence, obnoxious. you can play otherwise, but silly us validating it.

but what they give the children today is lie.

ends justify the mean, thru lie

i would rather my children learn to not smoke, from the truth of it. but i am not going to fear them into it with lies. that they clearly see is not true. i want them to be able to trust me

i am not asking you to live life like that, nor will i expect it. it is clear i would be disappointed. but i am not going to do it. wont honor it. wont be guilted or shamed into doing you lie.