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However, I thought it would be best for me to start with an e-mail. This way I can explain all the background regarding why I am interested in this, in a non-threatening way, and give her time to digest where I'm coming from before deciding how to handle this.
I understaned that there is also a theoretical advantage to catching her off guard, in the hope that she will say something that she didn't intend to say. However, I don't feel that I am particularly skilled in eliciting information in that manner.
What detective are you calling, or what does he/she have to do with this case?
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