Reply #25: OK now a serious response

[Carni]

When I was 17 I can recall hosting and sleeping over at many *unisex* type parties.

This was back in like 1981 BTW and of course there weren't any parents present because these parties always took place at homes where the parents were out of town (including mine)

I can honestly say that I never engaged in any hanky panky at these parties.

If the kids are going to have sex, they'll find a time and a place and you're not going to control it.

JMO but usually people that age at those types of gatherings are typically just hanging out and in all likelihood they have the hots for someone who isn't AT the party (so it's a group commiseration "I am so miserable over so and so" type of a deal!)

But then again things may have changed radically since I was a teen!