Reply #30: I had to finally tell these people my house is NOT a playground

[barb162]

some people can be very nice friends and these two people were very nice, but they couldn't seem to discipline their brats. When I told them nicely about their kids they just sort of looked at me. Like a duh look. One kid almost broke my window (he was pounding on it with his fists) and another time he was spitting inside my house when I told him not to do something and another time terrorizing the cats, etc. It is called oppositional-defiant disorder and when you look it up, it's the PARENTS screwing up their kids. These kinds of parent s usually get very insulted when you tell them to leave the destructive brats at home. They realize they created the demolition derby but they don't want to be told about it. SOme clueless people simply shouldn't have kids. This one time when the one brat was throwing a hard ball inside MY HOUSE, I got really pissed and the father finally put his 100% own creation of a brat in a therapeutic hold, which is what they do in the mental hospitals for patients who are acting out. Both kids did terribly in school because the parents were disssing the teachers for giving too much homework (and were in fact teaching the kids to disrespect adults). Both kids so far are liars and lousy students and have no respect for adults. One is 15 and one is 20. Some people should NEVER ever have children