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Reply #13: Very good advice
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skygazer
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Sun Dec-26-04 07:02 PM
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It's tough being a step parent (it's tough being a parent anyway). You have to walk a fine line - the kid needs to accept you as the man of the house but you have to accept that you're not the kid's actual father. Don't get drawn into the scenario of trying to be a good friend rather than an authority figure but try not to be an overly rigid authority figure as well. Best course is to work with mom and back her up.
Teenagers are learning about spreading their wings and gaining some independence - it's a tough time because you have to have boundaries while still allowing them a chance to expand them.
Good luck!!
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