Reply #33: SHE did NOT break up that family.

[tjdee]

HE DID.

She is not "messing with a family". HE IS.

She is NOT the reason this marriage/family is in this state. HE IS.

This is a huge pet peeve of mine. She was roped in by this married man, told lies by this married man--and I bet he is STILL telling her lies. Your friend is "doing this" because she has been fed a line by this guy and is in love with him.

She is stupid to stay with him and believe him after everything that's happened, but those kids and his wife are NOT her responsibility. I am of the mind that if someone knows a woman is being cheated on, they should *tell her* so that she is on the same playing field as everyone else. I don't think you've given us enough information to say whether your friend did it in a disrespectful manner or for dumb motives (like 'maybe she'll kick him out and come live with me').

I don't know why people are so quick to bash the "other". It's ridiculous. Your friend wasn't married. Your friend didn't seek him out.