Reply #37: The OP didn't

[hippywife]

give any qualifiers on his question. He appears to have asked it from the perspective of a "normal" set of circumstances - one person loses interest in the other or is interested in someone else. She answered it from that perspective, as I would have also. Instead of explaining how your circumstances came about and why you felt the way you do, you just got all snarky and insulted her instead.

People wonder why GD is in such chaos all the time and this is the reason why. People don't discuss things. They just take things personally and snap at the other person.

How hard would it have been to say that under normal circumstances you would have usually agreed but gone on to explain why in your case, or your friend's, it was (or felt like it was at the time)justified?

The word "cheating" in and of itself conotates a misdeed. You have gone on in your last post to say it was wrong, so there may be the source of your taking offense. You seem to have become defensive for reasons totally your own.

I'm truly sorry you are in such hurtful circumstances, but that is not reason to take it out on someone else. Peace starts with each one of us and how we handle personal interaction with one another. It will never be accomplished if we see attacks where they don't exist and feel we need to be defensive.