Reply #44: Wow, it was not my intention to offend or upset you. I am sorry if you were, crim son

[Shine]

I was simply expressing my obviously different opinion, NOT attacking you personally. Your response to me seems a bit harsh, but I understand you have been hurt in the past and I'm sorry for that, truly.

In the painful and emotionally complicated situation you describe, I can understand having to lie to protect one's child, as one is making the motions to leave the abuse....but cheating is a whole different ballgame, however. Cheating hurts other people and, in my opinion, is a big break in Integrity.

I think it gets complex because the word "Integrity", itself, means so many different things to different people. http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/integrity/#1

It's interesting and I can understand how it can trigger so many different value judgments. Sigh....if only Life weren't so complicated.

Again, my apologies if you felt offended. It was certainly not my intention. I wish you Peace. :hug: