Reply #86: sometimes we are reacting to situations poorly

[buddhamama]

but it doesn't define who we are.

i have been guilty of anger but i am not an angry person nor i am given to being judgmental but i am guilty of that too.

i am guilty of all things human.

i was recently cheated on. and, it is exactly the issue of pattern v. a situation that i struggled with.
was the cheating indicative of the person as a whole or, was it an isolated incident.