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gmoney Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-14-07 08:20 AM
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165. They want to know why?
There's a lot of insecurity in the world, and guys who try this approach generally have more than their share.

Perhaps they're asking "Is there something about me that I could change? Am I physically repulsive? Am I a jerk? I thought women liked jerks? Please tell me what I can do that will intrigue you. Give me the answer I've been looking for, but that attractive women refuse to share..."

Also, some guys know that attractive women get hit on ALL the time, and that most women answer "NO" as a reflex, usually without even considering the merits of the person asking the question. Perhaps asking "Why?" is an attempt to snap you out of your auto-response mode and so you'll actually look and at least find a REASON to reject them.

Obviously, because you're involved and because you prefer women, they don't have a shot, but THEY can't tell that by looking at you. They also can't tell that, even if you were looking for a man, that you wouldn't be too interested in someone who tried to pick you up on the street.

Or maybe they're just assholes. The world is full of them, too.
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