Discussion on Serious Relationships with Questionable Females

[Bullet1987]

Alright, this is real talk. I'm in this relationship with this girl right now in college. Her birthday just came up last week and we went out to the movies to see American Gangster. Typical date...but here's the thing. I found out some dude didn't know what to give her for her birthday so this sucka decides he wants to take her out to dinner...ALONE! It's just the two of them sitting in some resturant like Apple Bees or Red Lobster. Now, tell me that doesn't sound like a date to you? She said she didn't see anything wrong with it...that it was just two friends going out. I told her...no. If it were a group of females that would be different. You going out to eat with some other guy by yourselves is not just two friends goin out...that a FREAKING date. She also says she has a lot of guy friends and now she sees that that's gonna start being a problem in the relationship.

Maybe I'm just protective? But I know I wouldn't take another female out by myself to dinner knowing she has a man...but maybe that's just me. Or maybe this dude just doesn't give a f*ck? But she says he's not that type of person (like I'm supposed to know whether or not that's true...I don't know this guy).

I don't know...I just needed to vent. The other day she said she was confused because she didn't see what was wrong with it. And now she's giving me the silent treatment. Not sending me back texts and not picking up her cell. So I'm gonna surprise her *** and show up after class...