Have you felt like you have no purpose in life besides what you can do 'FOR' people?

[ChoralScholar]

I'm beginning to notice a trend in my life. I'm not wanted unless I can do something for somebody.

No one wants to just enjoy my company anymore. Any phone call I get from my friends or family starts with "Hey dude, my wireless router won't connect.." or "Hey man, I got a question about my computer..." - things like that...

I don't even feel like I'm wanted in my own marriage outside of paying the bills, and playing a role in some Norman Rockwell fantasy...

I do my best to be super-friendly and helpful to anyone around... and it just doesn't get me anywhere.. except obligated to do things, and no real friends.

Thanks for listening. I'm beginning to wonder why I'm here at all.