Reply #4: It's just plain laziness

[Rabrrrrrr]

like saying "and stuff" or "we were, like, shopping" or inserting "ummm" or "uh" into your speechifyin'.

I just wanna slap in the forehead and say "Think about what you want to say for a moment or two, so you can speak clearly, and let me know what you mean. Don't just speak from your lower brain stem."