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Edited on Fri Sep-26-08 06:53 PM by Jamastiene
don't go at all, but instead send a nice donation to a charity in the siblings memory/honor.
My reasoning is if you tell the family you can come before or after but cannot afford to make two trips, depending on your family (they might not be as incredibly stupid as my family) the first thing they'll ask is why you can afford it this time but not the next time.
Then again, you may want to completely disregard my reply: I guess I'm making my decision based on my family, because my family is brain damaged/willfully stupid and I loathe being around them any at all. I do care about my step brother and my stepsister and basically like them, but they would understand and appreciate the donation to something they care about.
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