Reply #16: She'll never tell you that

[Tinoire]

There's something in human beings that prevents them from confessing that.

Could you ever tell someone who thought you loved them that you hadn't? I don't know this girl. There's a slight chance that maybe she did and does. For your sake I hope that's the case.

Has she ever mis-led you? Is she honest and frank? If she's never ever given you cause to doubt her words, just ask her- tell her these last few months were emotionally devastating and that you really appreciate her but can't afford to be hurt again.

I don't know how hurt you were or what happened.

What has she told you? Has she told you she's excited to see you again and missed you? Or that she needed these 8 months to figure out who she was, what she wanted in life and that you were part of the final answer? All these things are important. It's so hard to give advice! What does your heart tell you?