Reply #10: Well, in the name of speed I left out a few details.

[amitten]

There are some negatives:

1. He has never declared any feelings for me, though he compliments me a lot.
2. He treats sex as sex--not as affection but more like recreation. After sex, he just withdraws.
3. He never calls me--just a text here and there until we see each other.
4. During "the talk" he would not say that he cares for me, or anything deep at all. He said he just enjoys my company and thinks a lot of me and wants to see how things go, but he's not wanting a "heavy, serious" relationship.
5. He said he just doesn't know if I'm the right person yet or not. But, he did say he didn't want to date around.

So I don't know if those are signs that he's thinking it's not me. He has been distant just the past few weeks and I don't know why. I worry that maybe he's decided I'm not the one, and our talk was his way of cluing me in gently. I'm trying to blend it in with all the positives and see where I should go from here.

I'm just feeling so sad and confused...