BIG disagreement with wife

[tcfrogs]

OK, here goes...

Forgive me if you've read parts of this before - I've posted the story already.

My wife was in Honduras last week. She left on a Sunday morning. My brother (my only sibling) called Sunday evening, and told me he wanted to visit here in Chicago with his girlfriend.

Wife called to check in...

Told her that my brother decided to come in town with his girlfriend of 6 months - wanted to stay at our house. (We own a very nice & spacious home in Chicago)

Wife said NO! She wasn't ready for someone to visit our house. Her "stuff" was all over the bedroom they would stay in, and she was uncomfortable with that.

I abided by my wife's wishes - they stayed at a hotel in the Loop.

I FEEL LIKE A COMPLETE SHIT!!!!! I called my brother afterward & apologized - and told my parents the same.

Wife is still sticking by her argument.

Any opinions? I'll add any details if you need...