Reply #27: I didn't say you were being lazy

[Kenneth ken]

I said being lazy is easy. The way your life was going was easier than it is now. IIRc school recently ended for you (I don't know if for the summer or what) so now you have a change in your life, at least temporarily and so opportunites to grow your wisdom. The breakup allows you freedom to meet new people, explore life from their perspectives, and learn things.

But for that to happen, you have to prep your self, so embrace the opportunity, tuck the joys of your past within you, and savor them in quiet moments.

If you go back to school in the fall, and encounter your former flame, do you want to be able to tell her you did cool things and met interesting people over the summer, or do you want to say you moped around lost and wounded?