Reply #13: Those who do that have been in their share

[Wapsie B]

of bad relationships in their lives. Their S.O. was someone who looked out only for themselves and no one else. To survive in this type of coupling the other person had to stand up to that attitude constantly. Some people seem to seek out that person with the rough exterior and look with disdaine on those who show kindness and gentlness. That's been my experience anyway.