Reply #25: I looked up my high school boyfriend

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"to see how he was doing" seven years ago, when we were both married and -- HE AND I ARE MARRIED NOW. It took three years for us to get out of our respective marriages, which was a painful time for both of us, but we're both better off now.

I would advise from experience that unless your marriage is very, VERY strong, you shouldn't go there. You will be surprised at your feelings. If your marriage isn't strong and you're looking for a way to push it over the edge, this is the way to do it.



ed. I should mention that my husband and I were sweethearts in 1963, and hadn't had any contact at all since 1967. These feelings last a long time, and sometimes you don't even know it.