Need Finger Lakes vacation advice

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DUers from the Maine forum were wicked good help with our Maine vacation last year. I'm counting on the DU NY forum to help with this year's Finger Lake vacation

My SO and I take vacation every September, whatever week my work load looks light. We avoid hotels, and instead rent a house from HomeAway/VRBO. I'm taking care of my medically frail Dad, so wherever we go needs to be 1/2 day's drive from Philadelphia in case he gets into trouble. My Dad suggested upstate NY.

We have absolutely no idea what's there. Would love advice from locals and regulars.

Here's what my SO and I like:
* Wineries
* Scenic Hiking (city folk hiking, not Rugged Hiking)
* Reasonably priced restaurants (although we cook in most nights)

Did I mention wineries?

SO's only requirement is a deck with a water view, and a local gym. He has no passport, so Niagra area is out this year (we'll go back when we can visit both sides).

So - any suggestions?