Reply #11: I bet he is gay.

[pnwmom]

That's why he assumes that everyone else is sexually drawn to their own gender -- it's a way to deny that homosexuality per se even exists. He may frequently feel "tempted" to have sex with other men -- and really have no interest in women -- but that doesn't mean he's gay, in his mind. He doesn't understand that, after the hormones are fully set in, most people are strongly attracted to the opposite sex.