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latebloomer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-29-06 09:22 PM
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3. Worked for us!
My husband and I have had years of counseling. At first, yes, it can seem worse instead of better, because so much tends to fester in a relationship where two people don't know how to communicate with each other, and it can be painful to bring it all out.

But we found that it vastly improved our relationship, and we kept going for a long time after the crisis had passed, just because it was so good to have a weekly forum to talk about what was going on.

Can't guarantee what will happen in your particular case-- I have known couples who decided in the course of counseling to split up. At least it became clear that it wasn't going to work, instead of languishing in misery for years, and they were able to move on.

Good luck to you!!
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