Reply #64: wow. so you are suggesting people must not differ from you

[seabeyond]

well, that isnt what i am saying and i think it is pretty obvious. some people would be able to, others would not. i could only talk about my experience, i would never presume to judge anothers or how they may deal with it. that would be wrong. yet,..... you feel you can with me. well, again, go for it. i dont take it personally so really has no effect on me. maybe that is the same with rape. i didnt take it personally. he was the pig, i did nothing wrong, wasnt indicitive of who i am as a person. said everything about who he was.

just as you being a snot to me really has nothing to do with me

i am sorry you are still in the experience. and i hope the best for you