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depakid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-06-07 11:47 PM
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40. Seems to me it's learned helplessness
Edited on Mon Aug-06-07 11:56 PM by depakid
Not only do people in important demographics perceive that the party is weak (unassertive is a better word) and/or that the leadership lacks the will despite the harshest acts, but with every capitulation to bullies and irrational people, the perception gets reinforced.

If you've tried to get someone out of an abusive relationship (and watched them lose their friends- one by one) you'll know exactly what I mean.

Friends eventually get tired of what they see as a losing proposition- and start figuring that "there's not much more I can do." She or he is going to keep going back, irrespective of the consequences.

It's frustrating (and sometimes self defeating) deal.



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