Reply #36: Several men I know are like this, to some degree--some aren't critical at all, but

[TwilightGardener]

have an attitude that they are not fundamentally responsible for an unfolded-laundry basket, a stained toilet, a sink full of dishes, crumbs on the floor. It's like they still secretly want to live with mommy. Housework is so sucky, and neverending, and comes in so many forms, that it's ridiculous to expect someone else to take care of ALL of it, even if that someone else is a stay at home mom. Srsly, men, if you leave whisker stubble in the sink, RINSE IT DOWN. If you splatter piss on the toilet rim, WIPE IT UP. If you notice kitty litter scattered on the floor, VACUUM IT. My husband does his share, so I'm not complaining about my own situation--but I grew up in a household where none of the males ever lifted a finger even when they made the mess.