...for the state of Virginia to become any
more antagonistic toward gay men and lesbians?
As much as I hate to quote a Repuke, this one has a point:
"If they don't like the expression of the will of the people of Virginia, they don't have to come here," (the bill's sponsor, Republican Delegate Robert Marshall) said. "This was done by freely elected representatives."
http://www.boston.com/dailynews/163/nation/Activists_urge_boycott_of_Virg:.shtml
He's right. These Neanderthals are the ones the people of Virginia chose to represent them. And unless the people of Virginia lash out at this kind of codified discrimination, then AFAIC, it's the people of Virginia at fault.
I'm sorry Virginia happens to be your state, progdonkey -- and I understand your anger at a boycott targeting your state. I felt the same way when many DUers proposed a boycott of California after Schwarzenegger was elected governor. After my anger died down, I understoond exactly why those DUers felt the way they did: Why
should they pour their money into a state where half the populace is so astoundingly out of touch that it would elect a womanizing son of a Nazi as its governor?
Certainly, I felt at the time that lefties like me would be hit unfairly by a California boycott. After all, I worked hard to defeat Schwarzenegger, and to support Cruz Bustamante -- why should
I suffer for the stupidity of the majority?
The answer is, simply, "personal sacrifice." I can't have it all -- and if I get hurt, financially or otherwise, by a boycott that otherwise helps a good cause, then that's
my personal sacrifice, and a worthy one to me.
So why should I give my money to Virginia? Why should I ever step foot in a place where I once vacationed, and spent plenty of disposable cash? Why would I want to subsidize a place like that?
Why should any of us live in or patronize a place that hates us so overtly -- and so "officially"?
The way it stands, every one of 49 states, with the exception of Massachusetts (and every territory, from Guam to Puerto Rico) makes clear its hatred for us.
Fortunately, some states are less hateful in practice, if not in policy, than others -- which is why I live in California, and not Virginia... or Alabama, or Mississippi, or Utah, or...
The upshot: I live where I feel relatively confident I'm not going to get my ass kicked in my own backyard.