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<snip> "None of us are going to leave here the people we were when we came here," Lt. Col. Harvey adds. "There's a tremendous cost of caring." <snip>
What strikes me to the core is this one thought: the cost of caring. This cost is what most people in this world do not want to be bothered with any more.
The cost to care takes away from the continually ramped up and overly booked schedules people have in their ordinary day to day lives. First there's the job or jobs. Then there's the never-ending daily list of things that must be done in order to function. Then comes the family time which has been summarized as quality not quantity. And last but not least, there is the time left over for self and/or others. The sad part is that by the time you get to the end you are scrapping the bottom of the barrel and doing good to get in six hours of sleep before starting the ritual all over again.
The cost to care takes away possible money in an economic climate that continues to spiral into an abyss. With two income earning people per famliy working one to two jobs each just to make ends meet, where is that extra that could go to help others who do not even have the basics? Besides worrying about living day to day, there's the children's future to think about; the futures of their immediate family; sicknesses; unexpected catastrophes; their retirement futures and more! Even if they wanted to help someone else, where's the time to research that 'perfect' organization to donate to that follows your principles, ideas and is trustworthy?
The cost to care takes away emotional energy from the constant fear that is being ramped up by our government and spread like a cancer causing virus throughout the nation every day, minute by minute. Emotions are too expensive and it takes time to get past the propaganda to find what is real, unreal, or surreal. Today's climate doesn't allow time to be spent on emotional issues. Hence, it's easier to just go with the flow and not think about all that doesn't seem to effect one in life's day to day activities. It's easier to listen to ten minutes of some quick news channel than to scan the channels of television or the pages of a newspaper for what might be a glimpse of truth. Maybe it's just easier to not even watch or listen to the news as it's too emotionally draining and disturbing when you feel helpless to change your own life much less someone elses' or the world's.
Eventually, the cost of care determines the state of ones soul. It's hard to look into your soul when you are hounded by guilt and shame because you are too tired, too poor, too emotionally drained to find time to help anyone else much less yourself. The soul can become lost, separated, splintered, darkened, dejected, hardened, bitter, uncaring, resentful, hateful, cold, evil. A person becomes susceptible to cults, fundamentalists, organizations that would have you just drop your money in the plate and don't worry your pretty little head about it...let us do the driving they say and just have faith! Meanwhile, they are driving you off the edge of a cliff into another abyss.
As an individual, a people, a nation, a world, how do we re-connect again to caring and the thought that it is less costly in the long term to care now, today, this very minute, than it is to shrink from the money, time, energy it will take to overcome the negative issues about the cost of caring? How to we take off the blinders? How do we see again? How do we speak again? How do we heal? How do we become one again? How do we step out of this blackhole that is sucking us into the abyss of a world gone mad without caring people...without love?
I have no answers. There will be no miracles. It will be as it is always has been each person's responsibility to determine their path, their choices, their truth, their right, and their action towards making their lives, their neighborhood, their nation, their world a caring, loving environment in which all beings desire to partake and celebrate life.
If even the tiniest spark of truth and love exists within a heart it can't help but spread! Speak truth to power. Don't be burdened by false guilt or shame. Do what you can this minute, this second and move on knowing you can only work within your sphere of influence as your body, your energy, your mind, your heart dictates. That is all anyone can expect of another human being. If each of us could find one caring thing to do once a day that would be a whole lot of love and caring folks!
Sorry for the rant... this article just touched something inside of me.
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