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grassfed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:24 PM
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Before He Hired an Escort, Rekers Tried to Spank the Gay Away
In 1974, Rekers, a leading thinker in the so-called ex-gay movement, was presented with a 4-year-old "effeminate boy" named Kraig, whose parents had enrolled him in the program. Rekers put Kraig in a "play-observation room" with his mother, who was equipped with a listening device. When the boy played with girly toys, the doctors instructed her to avert her eyes from the child.

According to a 2001 account in Brain, Child Magazine, "On one such occasion, his distress was such that he began to scream, but his mother just looked away. His anxiety increased, and he did whatever he could to get her to respond to him... Kraig became so hysterical, and his mother so uncomfortable, that one of the clinicians had to enter and take Kraig, screaming, from the room."

Rekers's research team continued the experiment in the family's home. Kraig received red chips for feminine behavior and blue chips for masculine behavior. The blue chips could be cashed in for candy or television time. The red chips earned him a "swat" or spanking from his father. Researchers periodically entered the family's home to ensure proper implementation of the reward-punishment system.

After two years, the boy supposedly manned up. Over the decades, Rekers, who ran countless similar experiments, held Kraig up as "the poster boy for behavioral treatment of boyhood effeminacy."

At age 18, shamed by his childhood diagnosis and treatment, Rekers's poster boy attempted suicide.

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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:28 PM
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1. It is said that rekers has roomfuls of red chips
to use on vacation. See, chips are not just for poker.
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:28 PM
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2. Fuck.
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sensate2000 Donating Member (86 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:30 PM
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3. Well now we know what was in all that luggage.
Chips!
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rrneck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:31 PM
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4. that low life
self important arrogant hypocritical butt munch horses ass rat fuck son of a bitch needs to go to jail. For life.
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FiveGoodMen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 06:37 PM
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19. I like the way you think!
:fistbump:
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wolfgangmo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 07:41 PM
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21. Screw that.
WTF did those murderers, rapists, and hedge fund managers ever do to you.


On second though scratch the hedge fund managers. They deserve to spend the rest of their lives in cages with ...
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:33 PM
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5. This man and all who are affiliated with him are terrible human beings,
and covering themselves in the trappings of religion and science makes what they have done that much worse.
What the hell was UCLA thinking-was anyone thinking at all?

mark
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:33 PM
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6. Oh, that poor child. And those poor parents to think that was the right thing to do.
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tavalon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:37 PM
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7. I feel badly for the child
Parents not so much. I think too many people who can have children when they clearly have them for childish reasons. No child is here to be an extension of their parents and any parents who demand that are too immature to have children. Children raising children is not good.
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ZombieHorde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:38 PM
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8. So fucked up. nt
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Canuckistanian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:39 PM
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9. Sick bastard
Why is this man NOT being prosecuted for child abuse?
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Tutankhamun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 09:57 PM
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10. I wonder how Kraig is doing today.
I wonder how the organization's other victims have fared. It's pretty clear that there is no real way to make a gay person straight, or the reverse. I just hope these poor people have been able to escape and or recover.
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RainDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-19-10 12:02 AM
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25. Kraig killed himself.
these people (the Rekkers' crew) are TORTURERS.

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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 10:04 PM
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11. Oh my God.
:(
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Shallah Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 10:49 PM
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12. I am going to be sick
Edited on Mon May-17-10 10:53 PM by Shallah Kali
:cry:

this is evil.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-17-10 11:36 PM
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13. This happens far more than some realize.
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Shallah Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 12:39 AM
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14. I found this article saying the program Rekers was part of went on for 14 years & NIMH funded
Feminine Boy Project
http://www.sbpress.com/2010/03/feminine-boy-project/


Though Stony Brook denies it, this campus was involved in a government-funded brainwashing project to keep children from “acting queer” for two decades. Some people involved still work on campus, and the Feminine Boy Project laid groundwork for current psychiatric abuses against transgender and gender-nonconforming people.

This project was funded by the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) from 1972 to1986. The original stated goal on the grants was “treatment of pre-homosexuality”–the, idea that if children were kept from stepping outside gender stereotypes, they wouldn’t turn out gay. When being gay was taken out of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) in 1973, the goal was changed to “treatment of pretranssexuality,” conflating gender identity and sexuality as the same, based in biased assumptions that anything other than stereotypical gender identities and heterosexuality were wrong. Children were declared “pathological” for behavior like boys playing with dolls, wearing dresses or helping in the kitchen, or girls climbing trees, playing with boys’ toys or wearing boy clothes.

This was collaboration between anti-LGBTI (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex) members of the psychiatric establishment and the “religious right.”

Richard Green is a colleague of John Money. Money instituted the “Money protocols” for nonconsensual surgeries on intersex children after forcing David Reimer to live as a girl (until Reimer changed back to male before killing himself). During the “experiment” Green co-wrote the book Transsexualism and Sex Reassignment. Green has made a career of pathologizing LGBTI people. This has included making inflammatory comments like his 1995 Dateline remark “plays with Barbies at five, sleeps with men at twenty-five.” While head of the now closed Human Sexuality branch of Stony Brook’s Psychology Department he got NIMH to approve nearly $1 million for the project.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 01:12 AM
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16. It happens every day in every city in every state
From an organized group or lone idiots trying to "straighten out the kid" If I think about it too much I'd go crazy.
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Mopar151 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 12:50 AM
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15. I remember seeing an ad for Christian "seminars" on this
Dobson used to tour evangelical churches, putting on seminars about "preventing pre-gay behavior". I just Googled the quoted phrase, and got a shitload of "hits", like this:

"3) “whether he imagines himself as a sports figure,” 4) “whether he reads adventure and sports stories,” and 5) “whether or not he is considered a sissy.”19(p60) Other researchers have noted that pre-homosexual boys often avoid “activities thought to be injurious”17(p316) as well as “play that involves fighting and rough-and-tumble team sports.”1(p928) Bieber’s study provides a comparison between boyhood characteristics of homosexuals versus heterosexuals (see table below).17(p175)

Comparison of Boyhood Characteristics

Homosexual Group Control Group
“excessively fearful of physical injury” 75% 46%
“avoided physical fights” 89% 55%
“participated in competitive group games” 17% 63%
“played baseball” 16% 62%
: fuckin' pantload from http://www.genderwholeness.com/Pathway/Chapter_4/path_4-07_atypical.html
These morons ought not to be fooling around with people's lives, 'cuz they ain't got a clue.
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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 01:41 AM
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17. There sure are a lot of sick people in the world
These people are the ones that try to change everyone. These people do not like themselves so they have to change everyone to look like them. So much fear and hate inside of them that they hate and fear everyone.
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dickthegrouch Donating Member (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 02:07 AM
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18. How do we get him declared "Sexually Dangerous"?
and ask the Supreme Court to throw away the key on this evil bastard.
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tomm2thumbs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 09:13 PM
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22. half of the Pope's officials will be locked away with 'em

they'll make good bedfellows

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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 07:31 PM
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20. The anti gay and 'ex gay' movements are all guilty of
horrible actions and abuses, each and every mother's son who has stood up and invoked the name of God against innocent people has a part in all that is done by the likes of Rekkers, make no mistake. Every last one of them.
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RainDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 10:06 PM
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23. a motherfucking murderer.
piece of shit.

Torturer. Medieval motherfucking asshole.

If I could wish someone dead, he wouldn't be breathing.
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Stargazer09 Donating Member (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 10:56 PM
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24. That poor kid
Rekers is a sick, twisted, abusive, disgusting excuse for a human being. He deserves a fate worse than simply embarrassment over his behavior. Unfortunately, people like him seem to just fade into the woodwork, escaping the justice that boys like Kraig deserve.

What kind of parents would go along with abuse like that? I mean, really, isn't four years old a little too early to tell if a child is going to express his sexuality differently than "normal" boys? Besides that, playing with "girly" toys doesn't make a boy gay. It makes him feel free to express his imagination outside of the stupidly rigid gender norms we have in this country, and we need more of that, not less.
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-20-10 03:57 PM
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26. And why wasn't social services called? This was child abuse. Not to mention illegal human
experimentation.
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