Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Bullies Are All Around Us, From Churches to Halls of Congress

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » Editorials & Other Articles Donate to DU
 
drakonyx Donating Member (191 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-14-11 10:19 PM
Original message
Bullies Are All Around Us, From Churches to Halls of Congress
Bullying has been in the news a lot lately, with gay and lesbian teens often being among its targets. Their unspoken mantra: "You're different than we are. Conform, or else!" It can just as easily be aimed at people who are deemed too shy, too heavy, too quiet, the wrong color, the wrong religion or from the wrong side of the tracks.

It would be nice to say to the bullies: "You're the ones who are different. The rest of us are civilized. You conform, or else!"

Unfortunately, I'm just not sure that's accurate. Bullying is so pervasive in our culture that it's almost expected. Many people even view it as a "rite of passage" for teens and a tool to help them become better socialized. That's like blocking a doorway with a gigantic stone and proudly declaring that you've made it easier for someone to enter the room. Bullies don't help people socialize, they isolate them.

And they do so by placing them in no-win situations.

http://www.theprovocation.net/2011/10/bullies-are-all-around-us-from-churches.html
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
bluestateguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-14-11 10:28 PM
Response to Original message
1. One thing
The study concluded that bullying is in fact a form of "social combat" through which people fight for status. The higher one climbs on the social ladder, the more likely one is to be a target, the study found. This makes sense in light of the bully's driving motivation: insecurity. If a bully can knock someone off his pedestal, he can gain the prestige that comes with being the new "king of the mountain."

This reminded me of something I saw in high school. This pretty and popular blond cheerleader was being picked on and bullied by this loser kid. I remember thinking how stupid this fool was. Well all she had to do was tell her football player friends (all of whom wanted to get into her pants), and they were practically competing with one another over who would get to kick the bully's ass first.

Needless to say, this bully never bothered this girl again. I remember he came to school all bruised up one day. After that he kept his mouth shut for the rest of the year.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Fumesucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-14-11 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #1
2. Bullying takes a lot of forms..
Some of it is indeed "social combat" between popular individuals/groups but there is quite a bit that's just aimed at those who it is thought won't fight back.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
red dog 1 Donating Member (307 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-15-11 12:42 AM
Response to Reply #2
3. Bullying Does Take a Lot of Forms.
"Adult bullying" is rampant in America today.

It's different from "school-yard" bullying, but, like school-yard bullying, adult bullying is often aimed at "those who it is thought won't fight back"

Also, like other types of bullying, the victims of adult bullying are often referred to as "targets" or "targeted individuals"

"Well-orchestrated accusations, lies, rumors, bogus investigations, set-ups, framings, intimidation, overt or covert threats, vandalism, thefts, sabotage, torture, humiliation, emotional terror and general harassment"
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=organized%20stalking/

I'm talking about organized stalking, which is often referred to as adult bullying.

The hired thugs who engage in organized stalking are basically cowards, like bullies are.

They flee as soon as a video camera is aimed at them, like cockroaches running away when a light is turned on.

They do not like it when their "targets" are able to get their license numbers, either.

They are terrorists, pure and simple.

Their goal is to terrorize their victims, using the methods outlined above in the Urban Dictionary definition of organized stalking.

While many victims of organized stalking are whistle-blowers, anti-war activists, or others the government or big corporations don't like; many seem to be chosen merely because they are "easy targets".

When victims of organized stalking turn to the police for help; they are often ridiculed, and told that they are being paranoid, because "a group of strangers would never do that".

Well, groups of strangers ARE doing that, and there are many, many victims of tis type of stalking.

In a 2009 Department of Justice Special Report "Stalking Victimization in the United
States" (Pub # NCJ 224527), DOJ estimated the number of stalking victims who reported multiple stalkers during the 12 month study period to be in excess of 180,000.

Freedom Of Information Act documents show that the 180,000 figure is artificially low
and that the actual number of stalking victims reporting multiple stalkers during the 12 month study period is probably in excess of 600,000, or more than three times the DOJ figure.
http://nowpublic.com/world/gang-stalking-new-doj-foia-documents-prove-doj-knows-truth/

Why would the Justice Department not want the American people to know the true extent of this type of stalking?

Perhaps because the Justice Department itself is involved in some way?

That would explain why DOJ has never prosecuted a multiple stalker case.

That would also explain why the Office for Victims of Crime (OVC) "does not provide direct assistance to victims of multi-stalker incidents"

OVC is part of DOJ.

Could it be that the many stories told by former FBI agents about the Cointelpro program still operating are true?

Could organized stalking be run and financed by certain intelligence agencies?

Could it be that the terrorizing of 600,000 innocent Americans every year is being financed by the American taxpayer?

Organized stalking is adult bullying.

Organized stalking is organized crime.

The criminals who engage in this type of stalking do so with impunity, knowing that the police will do nothing to stop them.

The media ignores them.

The U.S. Justice Department ignores them.

Local police ignore them.

They are victims of bullying; and they're being stalked, harassed and terrorized by bullies every single day, 24/7; and no one cares!

DOJ doesn't reply to calls, letters and e-mails sent by victims of organized stalking; and calls, letters and e-mails to the White House on the subject also go unanswered.

For more information on this type of adult bullying go to:
www.multistalkervictims.org/catchcanada.ca/



Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Demeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-15-11 06:26 AM
Response to Reply #3
5. I wish I could rec Your post
Can you post it separately? It deserves a wider reading.

And, oh, is it fascism yet?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Demeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-15-11 06:24 AM
Response to Reply #1
4. For those of us without a horny football team at our backs, what do you advise?
We USED to have the courts and the laws....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Fri Apr 19th 2024, 03:15 PM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » Editorials & Other Articles Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC