|
Okay, I'm like the news guy of the office. That's partially because I occasionally flip on DU at work to keep up with any breaking news throughout the work day. Whenever something major happens, I email a few of my coworker friends to let them know. Such was the case today with Bill Clinton's health issue. Here was an email exchange with one of my coworkers, who happens to be a Republican as well as one of my best friends. My question: Was I out of line? I go out of my way to be diplomatic with her concerning politics, because she IS such a good friend, and I don't want to screw that up. My emails are in bold. Hers are in italics.
====================================================
Bill Clinton is in a hospital in Manhattan after experiencing chest pains. New York Times says he has had a heart attack. CNN reporting that he will go in for bypass surgery tomorrow morning (ABC says it will actually be later today). The Associated Press says it will be a quadruple bypass surgery.
If any of y'all care.
====================================================
I think I should decline from comments.
====================================================
Really? The guy had a heart attack. I know you don't like him... I didn't like Ronald Reagan, either, but I felt bad when he died.
====================================================
You're assuming things, I declined from commenting.
====================================================
hahaha :-) Yes, you always decline from commenting when you have something nice to say about somebody. :)
====================================================
I have to say that Ronald Reagan was a good person. That is why you felt bad when he died.
====================================================
About Ronald Reagan: I think I should decline from comments.
====================================================
Bill Clinton was a creap. (sic) I'm not saying he should die or suffer or whatever. But I don't think I'll ever feel bad for him about anything. I can't stand to look at him he's so creapy.(sic)
====================================================
Ronald Reagan's economic policies (his "voo-doo economics", as the older George Bush called them) left my dad unemployed and unable to find work in construction (the economy tanked, so nobody was building anything). We lived in poverty for several years and we weren't alone -- hunger rose by 50% during the mid-80s and poverty rose 20%. Reagan called people like my dad "lazy" for not working. I've never known anyone who worked harder than my dad -- he is not lazy by any definition, but our family had a lot of trouble finding work and making ends meet. He stood for hours in unemployment lines, and put in tons of applications but no one was hiring. He stood in line for three hours at a McDonald's when it first opened hoping to get a job there because no one else was hiring. They refused to hire him because he was "overqualified" and if the economy ever got better he would get a better job and quit. He eventually found work at a gas station, making WAY less than he did when he was working as a carpenter.
During that same time, my mom worked part-time (as many hours as she could get) as a hairdresser and stood in lines to get cheese and peanut butter that were available for poor people so they could feed their families. Ronald Reagan called people like my mom "welfare queens".
I have other reasons for not liking him too (boring reasons like selling powerful weapons to Iran, using the profits to fund rebels in Nicaragua, and then giving chemical and conventional weapons to Iraq to support them in a war against Iran, as well as giving weapons, money, and training to a group of Afghan rebels who were fighting the Russians -- a group led by Osama bin Laden). But none of those reasons are personal like the ones above are.
But theoretically it's sad when anyone dies. There are a few people in this world that I don't like -- but I don't want anything bad to happen to any of them.
====================================================
I don't even know where to begin. I'm sorry that your family ever had to go through anything like that.
Sometimes I wonder why I even TRY to talk to you about politics or anything close. You have your mind made up and to be honest, it seems like you try to make people feel stupid and inferior when you talk about politics or anything you have an opinion about. I'm sure you're right about a lot of things, but I'm also sure you're not right about everything.
====================================================
I don't try to make anyone feel stupid or inferior. I was just telling you, you don't like Clinton -- I'm sure you have your reasons -- and I don't like Reagan -- and I have my reasons for that, too. So I'm not trying to seem superior or make you feel inferior -- absolutely not. I was attempting to show you that we're similar -- our opinions might be different, but we both have valid reasons for having them. And when it comes to opinions, there is no right or wrong... they're opinions. Because of that, I don't try to prove my opinions are "correct", because that's as impossible as trying to tell someone their opinion is "incorrect". But yes, my mind is made up -- I think your mind is made up, too. There's nothing wrong with that. I was just letting you know that I didn't dislike Ronald Reagan just because he had a little "(R)" after his name. It's not a blind, automatic idiological thing. I have reasons for things -- I just didn't want you to think that it was just some knee-jerk dislike of anything "Republican".
====================================================
So, was I out of line? I thought that MAYBE I could show her that some of the things that the Reagans and the Bushes did have real consequences for real people that she knows. She grew up very comfortably, and since I'm fairly well-off economically she probably doesn't have any idea that it wasn't always so. But do you think it was worth it, or should I have just dropped it from the beginning?
|