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sffreeways Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 06:28 AM
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Francophobia Considerons L' Origine
Edited on Sun Sep-19-04 06:30 AM by sffreeways
Long post but complex issue. I'd enjoy hearing anyones thoughts and opinions on this

French need to understand exactly what side the croissant is buttered on

Posted by KzooDem

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=104&topic_id=2367194&mesg_id=2367194

This post looked interesting so I clicked on the thread and started to read and of course there it was the requisite insult to the French. My interest in the discussion quickly deteriorated when I came upon this post by a poster called 'greed'. But my interest in the motivation behind it piqued my curiosity.

Here is the comment

I have been there twice and they are very dirty people who are not only rude to Americans but all visitors. Don't get me wrong there were a few nice people but on the whole they are a very resentful and hateful country.

I was expecting a moderator to delete the post but here it is at 5:30 am still there.

Let's change the target of this disgusting remark.

I have been there twice and the Jews, Blacks, Gays are very dirty people

Would DU remove a post that made such a derogatory remark about another group ? I thought they would but I suppose not. I don't fault DU so much because the French people are still a group that it's perfectly okay to insult. I believe we ought to change that.

Why a newbie would make such a comment about the French people on a discussion board like DU without knowing whether or not there were French people or their loved ones or their friends on the site and that this would offend them deeply is of no consequence to greed. Greed doesn't care because George W Bush has made French bashing Au Current. The gregarious greed has obviously come here to win the hearts and minds of everyone on DU but the French. A fabulous way to make friends and influence people. The reason why could be that greed just assumes there are others here that agree and so was comfortable making the statement. Greeds sentiments have been validated as greeds post stands. Have you ever been at a party when some obnoxious jerk tells an anti semitic joke and several people say I'm Jewish ? The jerk just assumes everyone feels the same way unless of course he's called on it. And of course plenty of DU'ers did call him on it. But I think DU could have gone further and removed the offensive post. My opinion. I did hit the alert button.

I can't take anyone seriously once they have expressed a bigoted sentiment and that's what referring to French people as dirty is. The argument that it's somehow politically incorrect is not the issue. Bigots hide behind the PC accusation like it's a shield they can use to protect their ignorance from scrutiny. It's wrong to single out one group of people for critical condemnation and that's just common sense. And we know why it's wrong and what it leads to ultimately. When the Nazi called the Jew filthy and dirty it legitimized their hatred and dehumanized their victim. I wonder what would happen to our French citizens if there was an attack against our troops in Iraq that took the lives of tens of thousands (perish the thought) ? I can see America getting uglier toward the French for opposing the war. Why not Germany ? Why all of this hatred aimed at the French ?

Conservatives are using the French to make the argument that John Kerry is weak. "He looks French". They harp on this notion that John Kerry would have America on it's knees waiting for the French to decide our Foreign policy and whether or not we would defend ourselves without French permission.

They have a problem with the French and it's got some ugly roots. Sexism. The French are girliemen, effeminate. That's the republicans biggest problem, their insecurity about their manhood. They worry about it all of the time. Remember how bent out of shape GHW Bush got when they called him a wimp ? The republicans did their best to play to the sexual insecurities of American males with Al Gore too. They immasculated him as best they could. And the press was happy to get right into it and get their already filthy hands even dirtier. And that's the appeal of W. He's a cowboy, a mans man. Actually, he's an unsophisticated, ignorant, foul mouthed, classless, closet case if you ask me. And that's it isn't it, he's as insecure as they come. That's what all of that swaggering cockiness is, overcompensation. Bush is making America sick with his toxic masculinity. All of this hypermasculinity would have you think republicans would have loved Bill Clinton but again their fragile masculinity was challenged I guess by his way with women.

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"What we're seeing is scapegoating of the French," says Richard Rapson, a University of Hawaii American studies professor specializing in U.S. cultural and intellectual history. "There could be hundreds of other countries that disagree with our interests, but it's the French that have been singled out.
"A lot of the jokes and comments revolve around the notion that we're courageous and they're cowards. There's also the thought that we're tougher and they're more effeminate and effete."

http://www.theolympian.com/home/news/20030309/living/17204.shtml

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The ultimate test of manhood in American societies is arguably the act of war.Part of being a man is to have the life of a warrior... men are taught to avoid, to eschew anything feminine, and to become stoic, unfeeling, and militaristic... Boys and later men ... are socialized toward action, warfare, and conquering, rather than feeling, reflection, and connection. ( Betcher, 120 ) The army is known for making boys into men by treating them in a violent, aggressive, demeaning manner meant to toughen them up. The process of toughening men up often entails verbal bullying, calling them “ sissies or little girls . Physical assault on the body, including strenuous training regimes as well as beatings are not an uncommon occurrence within the military.

Males are driven towards ideals of extreme aggression, dominance, and virility out of fear that they will be publicly ostracized or rejected if they don’t conform to them. Toxic males live in a state of fear “ ... of being discovered weaklings, wimps, pushovers or in other ways not men. “ ( Kaufman, 8 ) Males who fail to act with aggression, dominance, virility and stoicism, who desire other men or desire experimentation with other men, who are reluctant to become sexually active or suffer from sexual dysfunction, or who are unemployed may find themselves the victims of verbal ridicule. They may be called a “ sissy “ or a little girl, insinuating that their lack of conformity makes them women. They may also find themselves the victims of physical abuse by other men. The abuse men confront for not subscribing to or fulfilling rigid masculine ideals is a testament to the fragility and insecurity of this gender status. Given that challenges to a man’s masculinity is so assaultive, it is little wonder that men hide their insecurities and fear of failure behind a curtain of bravado and stoicism ( Gilmore, 164 ) The ultimate pay off of adhering to these extreme masculine ideals is that males receive the sought after status of a “ real man “ and all of its associated power and privileges. Indeed, Pierre Bordieu was correct in asserting “ to praise a man, one has only to say of him ‘ he’s a man ‘ “ ( Badinter, 2 ) The achievement of tests of manhood that entail tremendous labour and cost garners him the reverence and honour of his society.

http://www.athabascau.ca/courses/engl/591/essays/toxic1.html


ef·fem·i·nate

Having qualities or characteristics more often associated with women than men. Characterized by weakness and excessive refinement.


Why are conservatives so uptight about their sexuality ? They equate intellect with femininity too. They don't like women or anything like a woman unless it fits their tedious definition of what a female is and what her role should be.

I wanted to explore the roots of the French strategy so I did some reading and found some fascinating stuff.



America stereotypes the people of France as rude, effete bastards having an undeserved air of self-importance and a culture based primarily around their cuisine. They are generally dismissed as pretentious egomaniacs, with a propensity toward an undeserved ethnocentrism.

These prejudices against the French are so engrained in American culture that isolated instances go unchallenged by typical citizens. In fact, they're barely even noticed at all -- fading into the background. Since they were young, Americans have become desensitized to anti-French portrayals in the media and overall culture.

Florida Congresswoman Ginny Brown-Waite sponsored House Resolution 1265: the American Hero's Repatriation Act of 2003. "France has consistently turned its back on the United States... They forget, if it weren't for America, they would be speaking German today."


To provide, upon the request of a qualifying person, for the removal of the remains of any United States servicemember or other person interred in an American Battle Monuments Commission cemetery located in France or Belgium and for the transportation of such remains to a location in the United States for reinterment.

http://www.rotten.com/library/culture/american-francophobia/

Definition: Francophobia refers to an abnormal and persistent fear of France or French culture. Also known for Gallophobia, Galiophobia

American Francophobia Takes a New Turn

View Full Article (PDF—398kb). An excellent read.

At the dawn of the 21st century, something new may be happening in the heartland of America: the spread of a negative image of France. Traditionally, a mostly positive image of France linked to its reputation for good food, high fashion, and sophisticated tourism, coexisted with a somewhat negative image in some elite circles. But the most important factor was definitely a lack of knowledge and the fact that above all, indifference reigned supreme. (See Body-Gendrot in this issue.)

"Francophobia" (not a very satisfactory term) does not constitute rational criticism of France. It expresses a systematic bias against this country, the way anti-Americanism does against the United States. It is based on a set of stereotypes, prejudices, insults, and ready-made judgments. Moreover, like anti- Americanism it deliberately conflates what a country is and what it does. Negative stereotypes about personal characteristics of the French, (for example, they are lazy, immoral, or arrogant) are combined with stereotypes about French society (elitist, unwilling to modernize, or anti-American) and stereotypes about French foreign policy (allegedly based on purely commercial interests or nostalgia for past glory) to produce a complete, if sometimes self-contradictory, discourse of disparagement, what Jean-Philippe Mathy calls in this issue a "system of Francophobia," a web of loosely related clichés that can be mobilized at will—especially, of course, when a diplomatic crisis erupts. This article will offer a brief overview of Francophobia, describing its content and its political base. It will also assess the changes that occurred in 2002-2003, and attempt to establish how new and how important the most recent developments are.

It is difficult to know whether this new mass version of "Francophobia" will prove as long lasting and widespread as is feared. But there is no doubt that in 2003 France joined the ranks of countries subjected to a campaign of widespread bashing from the American population—Japan in the 1980s being the most recent example. While much of the negative recent stereotyping is familiar to students of anti-French sentiment in the US, the replacement of Honda-smashing by Peugeot-smashing in some popular rallies, that is, its diffusion into the wider population, as well as the striking political polarization of Francophobia around conservative patriotic circles, are new characteristics.

http://www.brook.edu/views/articles/fellows/vaisse20030725.html

Francophobia:

How to foam at the mouth
while keeping your job

The French, in short, have become the scapegoat for America's problems. Blaming the French enables the war partisans to avoid admitting that they were in any way wrong in their support for the excursion in Mesopotamia. For the leaders of the war party — the neoconservatives — Francophobia serves not so much to protect any guilt-prone psyches as to protect their concrete political interests, by serving to distract public attention away from their misdeeds: Don't blame the neocons, blame the French. Furthermore, Francophobia serves to bolster support for the ongoing occupation of Iraq despite the troubles plaguing that operation. For the United States to pull out would be to surrender to the French position — it would acknowledge that the French were right about the dangers of a war on Iraq. C'est impossible!

The irony here is that all of this French-bashing is the polar opposite of reality. French opposition to the war meshed with the view of the vast majority of the people of the world. It was the United States that was undemocratic in its efforts to coerce and bribe governments to support the war against the opinion of their peoples.

And it is the same people who hammer the French who become so outraged when any criticism is directed toward Jews or Israel. It all represents the height of hypocrisy. But it is so commonplace that no respectable man even notices — or, at least, none dares admit he notices.

http://www.thornwalker.com/ditch/snieg_francoph.html

Francophobia.
Utilizing a technique he learned in his fratboy hazing days, Dubya decides to freeze France out for her opposition to the war in Iraq. Along the same lines, Bushies are now trying to deride Kerry by saying he looks French. (Why not tell the American people he's got cooties, while you're at it?) Yes, folks, these people run the country.

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In unfriendly American eyes, France is a cowardly and effete nation that never met a dictator it couldn't appease. It is immoral, venal, anti-Semitic, arrogant, insignificant, and nostalgic for past glory. It is also elitist, dirty, lazy, and it is anti-American. Sure, anti-Americanism and francophobia can be gut feelings. But most of the time, the objective is simply to undermine your opponent's image and credibility, rather than to engage in genuine debate. When you're a "cheese-eating surrender monkey" or a "simplistic cowboy", nobody needs to care about the validity of your arguments.


I began to realise that this wave of francophobia had surpassed recent expressions of French anti-Americanism. Or rather, that it was different. Condescending stereotypes and misrepresentations certainly abound in Paris. But I have never been able to find the front page of a French newspaper with an American official pictured as an animal - or even the equivalent of Christopher Hitchens' comparison in the mainstream print press of Chirac with "a rat". No political correctness stands in the way of France-bashing; you wouldn't see the New York Post replace the face of an African, an Israeli or a Mexican official with an animal face.

http://www.dienekes.com/blog/archives/000047.html

Jack and Jackie Kennedy loved the French people and the French people loved the Kennedys.

The French people love the American people but they don't like George W Bush or his policy of war mongering. Democrats don't like W and his war either so the French our with us not against us. The enemy of my enemy is my friend.







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Kellanved Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 06:46 AM
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1. Thank you for posting
Some very interesting articles and a great rant. I would not single out one poster, but there are always a few eager to jump on the Anti-France bandwagon. I do not think that it is an accepted view on DU, nor one shared by a significant number of posters - just one repeated frequently.

I do not understand why France has been singled out and is used as proxy for Anti-European sentiments.


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Brian_Expat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 06:57 AM
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2. Jingoists in America hate France because. . .
. . . French philosophy is the origin of the United States.

French notions of a democratic republic, with constitutional protection for human rights, was the basis of the American experiment. Even Thomas Jefferson said that every free man had two countries -- his own, and France.

The French navy blockaded the United States coast against British reinforcements, ensuring a victory for the US revolutionaries.

Even at its ugliest, French and American political and military policy are similar. Algeria was France's Vietnam. Like America, France at her worst is piggish, arrogant and isolationist. At her best, she exports culture and democratic values around the world -- just like America.

What right-wing bigots and left-wing bigots alike hate in France is ultimately what they hate in ourselves, but cannot admit to. France simply makes an easy target in that regard.
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Rich Hunt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 09:58 AM
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9. absolutely!

This 'Francophobia' goes back a long way. You can find it in American newspapers in the nineteenth century. I doubt the Francophobes of today are even aware of its history.

It's not about France - it's about what France represents in some people's imaginations, namely people who have never known any French people.
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slor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 07:36 AM
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3. I love the French...
Edited on Sun Sep-19-04 07:39 AM by slor
and I was disgusted by the rhetoric used by many Americans towards the French people when they tried to stop the folly of a war in Iraq.
I tried to use my knowledge of history to defend the French, and took issue with all that smeared the heroic history of the French people, particularly, during World War II. I shared the stories of the heroic battles against a technologically superior force when Germany invaded, and of course the many brave actions, by people in the Resistance, despite the extraordinary dangers that were always present during the Nazi Occupation. It typically fell on deaf ears, but there were always a few that began to see the truth. Sadly, the prospect of showing people just how correct the French were regarding the war in Iraq, has been made simpler, by the clear evidence of just how great a catastrophe it has become.
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Mizmoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 07:45 AM
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4. Listen, there's a reality to face here
Whenever I encounter European visitors here in the USA, I go out of my way to be friendly, steer them to fun activities, and show them American hospitality. I met one German couple in the Poconos who we invited to dinner and gave tips about good things to do when they got to NYC. We all had a very nice time.

However, I have never once been treated with such hospitality in Europe. Ever. Not in the UK, not in France, not in Belgium, and not in the Netherlands.

That's what so many people react to. I'm sure there are nice people in every country, but when I visit Europe they seem to hide these folks away and put their most obnoxious counterparts in place.

Now you'll all accuse me of having done something to provoke such reactions, but you're wrong. I make an effort to speak the language and respect the customs of every place I visit.

Now, I've never been to Germany. Maybe they are nicer there, like the couple we met. But I think many Americans have had similar experiences thus the negative sterotypes.

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Brian_Expat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 07:56 AM
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5. The big difference
Edited on Sun Sep-19-04 07:57 AM by Brian_Expat
I have never once been treated with such hospitality in Europe. Ever. Not in the UK, not in France, not in Belgium, and not in the Netherlands.

First of all, Britain is amazingly friendly, especially if you head into a pub. Much friendlier than most of the USA, in fact, especially given the USA's aversion to "outsiders" in most cities.

Secondly, I'll bet you that the tourists in the USA were speaking English. Were you speaking French, Dutch or Flemish when you were here? I doubt it.

I never cease to be embarrassed by my fellow countrymen who come here. They're loud, assume everyone speaks English (and get rude/insulting when they don't), and expect to be catered to. Then, after three days abroad, they decide that they must know everything there is to know about Europe.

when I visit Europe they seem to hide these folks away and put their most obnoxious counterparts in place

Most Europeans say the same thing about Americans, for the same reasons -- they show up with an entitlement philosophy in the other country, wander around looking like idiots, and then react with shock when other people are annoyed to death.

As for American "friendliness," that certainly wasn't the case with gay friends of mine who have visited the USA and encountered rude customs agents, hostile serving people, and even been physically assaulted.
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Mizmoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 08:53 AM
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7. Disagree
Edited on Sun Sep-19-04 08:58 AM by chamilto
Do you know how the Lonely Planet Guide describes the USA? As the place that has what are possibly the most "friendly natives on Earth". I guess they're just making that up, though.


You wrote:
"They're loud, assume everyone speaks English (and get rude/insulting when they don't), and expect to be catered to."

I have NEVER seen Americans act like this except one time in Mexico (different continent altogether) and large quantities of alcohol were involved. I have seen Americans try very hard to fit in, just to be rebuffed, and I have NEVER seen any of them insult someone in their own country because they didn't speak English. I think you exaggerate American clumsiness in Europe.


*Edited for spelling
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sffreeways Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 09:40 AM
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8. Well I've seen it
I have seen Americans being loud and rude overseas compared to the locals and I can't say whether alcohol was involved or not.
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Media_Lies_Daily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:44 AM
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15. You can disagree all you want. Enough people here have seen....
...Americans in action in Europe and IMHO, it hasn't been pleasant to watch, regardless of whether or not alcohol was involved.
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Brian_Expat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 12:43 PM
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22. Woo hoo! A book!
Do you know how the Lonely Planet Guide describes the USA? As the place that has what are possibly the most "friendly natives on Earth".

And the Texas Rangers gave my gay French friends a VERY warm reception indeed when they decided to hold hands on the riverwalk in San Antonio.

Similarly to Canadians who were also attacked by the police, they were beaten and then arrested and charged with "resisting arrest" while the cops screamed "faggots" at them.

But that just doesn't happen because Lonely Planet says Americans are friendly.
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Ravenseye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:08 AM
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11. I concur about Britain...
...lived there and have family mostly in London and Warickshire but also spread out a bit to a few other areas. I love going to England because it's just so nice. I've never had a problem anywhere in the UK with that sort of rudeness. In fact I'd say that in my experience when people find out I'm american they might actually treat me a little nicer...not because I'm an american, but simply becuase I'm a guest.
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Brian_Expat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 12:44 PM
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23. Whenever I go out drinking in a pub. . .
. . . people are friendly as can be. Americans and Canadians are both welcomed and treated well by British people.

Where Europeans draw the line is in the entitlement philosophy shown by so many US tourists -- "entertain me, damn it." No, go entertain yourselves.
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Flagg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:38 AM
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14. I've lived in France all my life and have never been rude to
American tourists.
Nor have I ever seen any instances of rudeness from my compatriots towards Americans.

Au contraire. I work at the English department the University in Montpellier and hang around American students all the time. We go along perfectly well.

I love it when tourists ask me for directions. It's an opportunity to demonstrate that the French don't hate americans (as opposed to Amerikkkans)that we can be very polite and don't smell.

There are rude people outthere, sure, but there are jerks in every country. You were unlucky that's all.


Next time you come to France. Come to Montpellier.
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AngryWhiteLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 12:36 PM
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20. Flagg, my wife and I are going to Paris & Strasbourg this week. Any tips?
I would appreciate any tips on Paris and/or Strasbourg travel. We're going to be in Paris for 5 full days and Strasbourg for 2 days. Anything we should definitely NOT do (e.g., buying metro multi-day passes, going to Louvre on busy days, areas to avoid, etc.). Our hotel in Paris is across the street from Luxembourg Park on Boulevard St. Michel, and the one in Strasbourg is in the "Little France" inner-city section. We're major art and culture lovers, as well as big antique shop/fleamarket types, so any pointers beyond the obvious ones (e.g., Louvre, Pompedieu(sic), etc.) would be most appreciated.

Merci,
JB
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Bigmack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 12:51 PM
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24. England.. Ireland....
Italy... Turkey....

We've been treated to wonderful hospitality in all of them.

Sometimes people were so kind (especially Turkey) we wondered if we they were "putting us on".

People in Turkey invited us into their homes for tea. We were nervous - was there an agenda? - did they want to sell us something? Nope. Just talk (primitive Turkish and primitive English) and laughter.

In England and Ireland we biked, and people were always asking us to take a break for tea as we biked by.

All we did was put a BIG CANADIAN MAPLE LEAF FLÅG on our bikes and backpacks!

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grace0418 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 02:00 PM
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30. Maybe you're just unlucky
I've been to France 3 times and every time I was treated very well by many people. There was patisserie owner who helped me with my french. Then shop owner who took our pre-made sandwiches and quiches and warmed them up for us after asking if we were going to eat outside (which he didn't have to do, he wasn't automatically doing it for all the customers and it was a busy shop). There was even a kind delivery man on the street where we stayed who gave us tips on the best little neighborhood places to try. We had many, experiences like this. Of course we had our share of indifferent people, and a couple of rude people, but that happens in Chicago all the time, where I speak the language and know the customs.

I think there are two other factors to consider as well: time of year and tourism density. I don't know where you live chamilto, but few places in the U.S. aside from New York City even compare the tourism density of Paris or London or Rome. And if you're traveling during the height of tourist season it gets even crazier. You may go out of your way now to welcome visitors you encounter in your town, but imagine yourself living in Paris during June/July/August. Imagine yourself having to try to commute to work, go shopping, run errands, get your kids to activities, etc. while being utterly surrounded by lost people trying to find the Louvre. And for every respectful, kind person you come across, there are 15 obnoxious, clueless people. Imagine every task outside your home taking 3 times as long to accomplish because of increased traffic, long lines, people asking you for directions, and packed metro trains. I don't know about you but I'd get a little cranky too.

I've been to Paris in June, October and February and I can say without hesitation that the people were much friendlier and the whole experience much better in October and February than it was in June.
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 08:19 AM
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6. My husband is a French cowboy
in that he was born in Texas (sixth generation on his mother's side) but his father was of French ancestry. He resents anyone calling Bush either a Texan or a cowboy, because he is neither. And, knowing what I know about his family and the life of his late father, I resent anyone putting down the French. Heck, I'm part French, too!
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Chelsea Patriot Donating Member (603 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:02 AM
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10. Look at What The French did to their Aristocracy!

Is it any wonder our would be Aristocracy is so afraid of the French and hate them so much?
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Ravenseye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:10 AM
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12. Why doesn't anyone mention....
...the fact that breakfast in France and french speaking parts of Belgium is just the best in the world?

Maybe it says more about me than the French, but one of the things I love most about going to either France or Belgium, is waking up in the morning and having the breads, cheeses, etc...

mmmmmmm....unpasteurized soft cheeses....*gargling sound*
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TexasSissy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:16 AM
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13. The French - a history of bigotry and bias against them
First, I've heard such negative comments about the French before. Mainly by people of German ancestry. This dates back to the invasion of France by the Germans in WWII. These are old negative statements started by a "race" that thought it was superior (no offense to current Germans....although a current friend of mine, German in ancestry, has made the same comments).

Jack and Jackie Kennedy liked the French people because she, of course, was of French ancestry (Jacqueline Bouvier).

I am of French ancestry and have heard these comments before. It's nothing new. (In fact, all but one of my ancestors is 100% French, as far as I know. They all married other French people, except for one.)

But of course, the French are known to be, shall we say, difficult with foreigners? I don't know, since I've never been there. But apparently they have had an ongoing war or sorts with Britain for centuries, and they are a foreign speaking country next to Britain, and the British travel to France daily. France has just developed an attitude of intolerance, generally speaking, with tourists who often travel to France but refuse to learn the language, I've heard. As Kerry said, "The French are, well, the French." You don't browbeat France into agreeing with you; you must appeal to them, schmooze them, show them respect. That's what Kerry was saying, I think.

The French effiminate? That's silly. Ask any woman standing next to a Frenchman. They are incredibly sensual and sexy, for the most part. Not effiminate in the least. And they are true warriors, usually. I had another acquaintance of German descent try to say to me that the French have done nothing warrior like in their history. I, of course, pointed out Napolean, arguably one of the most successful generals in history. He shut up and looked away. He didn't know his history, I guess.

As for the French owing us for WWII, as my Repub dad mentioned, I called to his attention that their job is not to rubberstamp every decision we make because they owe us for WWII, any more than it is our obligation to rubberstamp every decision France makes because we owe France for our very existence because of the independence war against Britain (France fought with the Americans against Britain, had their men die on U.S. soil, and is therefore, partially responsible for the very existence of the U.S.) He shut up. He didn't know his history, either.
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Media_Lies_Daily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:49 AM
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16. I would also add that the French fought very well during WWI,...
...to the point where they almost lost an entire generation during that war. Here are some facts and figures:

"World War I cost France 1,357,800 dead, 4,266,000 wounded (of whom 1.5 million were permanently maimed) and 537,000 made prisoner or missing -- exactly 73% of the 8,410,000 men mobilized, according to William Shirer in The Collapse of the Third Republic. Some context: France had 40 million citizens at the start of the war; six in ten men between the ages of eighteen and twenty-eight died or were permanently maimed."

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TexasSissy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 12:19 PM
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18. I did not know that. Thanks. I'll add that to my repertoire...
of French truisms to counter the falsisms.

Viva la France!
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Neecy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 10:56 AM
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17. yes, I saw the original thread
...and the freepers who come out of the woodwork every time there's a thread that involves France are totally predictable.

It's just the frustration of people who know the Bush* policies they support have been proven to be utterly bankrupt and they have no argument on the issues. So, when they see a France thread they go to town - after all, France bashing requires zero thought, just tired cliches. I would bet everything I own that the ones who proclaim that they've been to France and the people are 'dirty' and 'smelly' have never been out of their trailer parks.

I agree that the people in that thread posting such nonsense - and I think they all were very low-number posters - should have been tombstoned. We shouldn't allow such ugly stereotypes against anyone, period.
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AngryWhiteLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 12:28 PM
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19. WE OWE THE FRENCH for helping with the American Revolution.
The COLD HARD FACT is that without the aid of the French during the American Revolution, we might still be a British colony.

JB
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ckdexter Donating Member (40 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 12:36 PM
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21. Very interesting thread
Edited on Sun Sep-19-04 12:37 PM by ckdexter
I've often puzzled over the reasons for so many American's gut hatred for the French.

I think Brian_Expat's suggestion was quite striking--many of America's founding principles have their origins in France, and France played a crucial role in helping win the War of Independence. So in a way, it's like a father/son rivalry. The US would like to think of itself as its own creation, and resents its deep roots in French history and culture. This also might explain the cliche about French effeminacy. This is a way of saying you're a bigger man than daddy. But why don't we find a similar attitude toward England, since it is the origin of many of America's founding principals?

I sometimes think French hatred involves a lot of envy. We picture the French as working less, taking longer vacations, doing whatever they like (eating fattening foods, drinking, smoking), and never having to pay for it. In a country with strong roots in a Puritan attitude about work, that can cause some resentment. We have to be punished for our pleasures, so shouldn't they be too?

In reference to the comment about the French being inhospitable to visitors. This always boggles my mind. I lived in Paris for 4 months, and didn't encounter it. Frankly, I think this is a matter of misinterpretation of people's behaviour. I think people are encountering people who aren't overtly displaying signs of excessive friendliness and reading too much into it. (I think something similar is behind the cliche that big city dwellers are rude.)

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lastliberalintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 01:05 PM
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25. We're not that way towards Britain
because we kicked their --- in the Revolutionary War. And we did it without help from anyone, so stop saying we "owe" the French! ;-)


I agree that much of our French hatred is actually envy and jealousy. You and Brian made some very interesting comments.

And welcome to DU!
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October Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 01:27 PM
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26. Merci
That post was long overdue.

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EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 01:39 PM
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27. I think everyone is making this too complex
Edited on Sun Sep-19-04 01:40 PM by EstimatedProphet
The people who bash France for no reason bash every country for no reason-or really for only one reason: egomania. To these people, all countries other than the US are inferior, and should serve Americans. These kind of people think themselves superior to everyone else in the world.
The reason that foreigner-bashing has become so popular lately is because there are so many of these idiots around now. Fox brainwashing and Our-Savior-Who-Art-In-The-White-House Bush have told them to revile everyone on earth who isn't a Republican, and that really plays well to Mr. Used Car Salesman in Indiana (no offense to used car salesmen or Indianans on DU) who doesn't get the amount of respect he wants.
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 01:42 PM
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28. Never been to France, but I have a lot of friends in Montreal...
...to whom I felt compelled to apologize on behalf of all decent AMericans when all that anti-French crap started emanating from the U.S. in the build-up to the Iraq war.

And as recently as last week, I saw a bumper sticker that read, BOYCOTT FRANCE! THE SPIN STOPS HERE.

Flag-waving jerk-offs.

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GoneOffShore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-19-04 01:44 PM
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29. Has our little friend
Greed retreated? Or is he still lurking?
It was interesting that he could neither give examples or places he'd been to where he'd encountered rudeness.
It's always interesting to me that Americans think that they are so friendly. They're not friendly, they're nosy. Under the guise of friendship we will so often ask questions that in just about every other society on earth are considered rude - what do you do? (which is often an economic indicator), what do you make? Very seldom do we ask more substantive questions which would actually lead to knowing about how people from other cultures think.
I've learned over the years not to ask what people do. If I'm being friendly in a bar or in a social situation my questions revolve around food, drink, ideas. It's led to far more interesting conversations.
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