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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:36 PM Original message |
The Acceptable Slander Even here at DU |
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cheezus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
1. what does your mother do with the child support i pay her? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Fathers need more say in how the money is spent indeed. |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
2. What I find appalling are the laws governing custody. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:48 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Agreed True |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:46 PM Response to Reply #2 |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:55 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. WTF are talking about? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:02 PM Response to Reply #77 |
79. Call it what you will. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:07 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. What does that have to be with me be a Nazi? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:24 PM Response to Reply #81 |
92. Shit, why fool with stats when there is reality? |
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benburch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
3. My father was a deadbeat dad. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Why wasn't it payroll deducted? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:42 PM Response to Reply #6 |
99. your defintion of myth = whatever doesn't fit your fantasy |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:53 PM Response to Reply #99 |
103. The term Myth came from the government study |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:00 PM Response to Reply #103 |
108. a study doesn't negate the reality |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:09 PM Response to Reply #108 |
111. Who's reality? Yours? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:48 PM Response to Reply #111 |
123. what exactly is this thread about? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:04 PM Response to Reply #123 |
134. This thread is about my MOMMY ISSUES |
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ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 04:52 AM Response to Reply #6 |
184. My mom and dad divorced when I was six years old |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 01:52 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Unfortunately, there's some truth behind every stereotype |
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benburch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Much more than just "some" |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:36 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. It doesn't hurt my feelings at all. |
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Eloriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:39 PM Response to Reply #13 |
67. It's not bullshit when the problem itself is lopsided |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:51 PM Response to Reply #67 |
76. You are correct about it being lopsided. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:49 PM Response to Reply #76 |
158. Did we watch Dr. Phil today? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:55 PM Response to Reply #158 |
160. I would love for you to bring the facts to the table |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:29 PM Response to Reply #160 |
175. Fixing it the way fathers rights groups want it would hurt |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 04:42 AM Response to Reply #175 |
183. Why not bring the facts you claim to have? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:56 PM Response to Reply #13 |
78. My Dad is a very angry, and sick man. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:09 PM Response to Reply #78 |
84. Now that is more like it. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:12 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. I'd like feedback from men on this, too. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:20 PM Response to Reply #85 |
89. What makes parents flee? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:27 PM Response to Reply #13 |
93. Here's a little piece of advice. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:35 PM Response to Reply #93 |
96. So if a wife files for divorce, |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:42 PM Response to Reply #96 |
100. sorry, when one is whining about having to "shell out" for |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:55 PM Response to Reply #100 |
106. Tell it to the person who said it. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:58 PM Response to Reply #106 |
107. I hear that attitude SO MUCH. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:11 PM Response to Reply #107 |
113. Again you are replying about something I never said. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:26 PM Response to Reply #113 |
141. Just a casual observation. |
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Sterling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:13 PM Response to Reply #93 |
115. Personally I have seen as many bad mommy’s as daddy’s. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:19 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. Thank you |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:47 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. Again Ben ,have you read the links. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:48 PM Response to Reply #14 |
73. BTW what percentage point in the statistic do you represent? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:23 PM Response to Reply #73 |
90. Percentage of what Stat? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:49 PM Response to Reply #14 |
74. dupe orama |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:49 PM Response to Reply #14 |
75. dupensteins |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:12 PM Response to Reply #9 |
23. The non-custodial parent |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:15 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Here we go with S and M words again lol |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:19 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. I'm sorry |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:27 PM Response to Reply #26 |
32. Very adult |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:32 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Hey |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:36 PM Response to Reply #33 |
39. This from someone who pleads |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:39 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. Really. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:41 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Smilies might help |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:44 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. I just assume |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:50 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Where on earth have I been anti WOMAN????? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:55 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. I didn't say you were anti-woman |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:09 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. You wont because you cant. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:14 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. I won't |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:28 PM Response to Reply #55 |
62. The child was HERS. not HIS |
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Kaysera (75 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:34 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. Unfortunately, the child is now legally his ... as well. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:46 PM Response to Reply #65 |
71. Finally someone gets it. Except |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:09 PM Response to Reply #71 |
112. Hmmmm |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:15 PM Response to Reply #112 |
116. Where have I called men victims? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:38 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. That's a flattering portrayal |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:03 PM Response to Reply #66 |
80. You are really not seeing the forest through the trees |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:14 PM Response to Reply #80 |
86. You are the one who insists it isn't his kid. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:32 PM Response to Reply #86 |
94. You are the one who cannot admit it was fraud. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:38 PM Response to Reply #94 |
97. Look |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:48 PM Response to Reply #97 |
102. So the state should not reverse this? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:54 PM Response to Reply #102 |
104. No |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:02 PM Response to Reply #104 |
109. Are you agreeing with me? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:11 PM Response to Reply #109 |
114. When did I ever say otherwise? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:26 PM Response to Reply #114 |
119. It was fraud |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:49 PM Response to Reply #119 |
124. But |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:07 PM Response to Reply #124 |
135. Finally! |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:34 PM Response to Reply #86 |
95. It always STUNS me, when there has been infidelity on the |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:35 PM Response to Reply #95 |
120. Not really the issue at hand, the issue is should be legally |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:27 PM Response to Reply #120 |
142. Jesus Christ , it really IS all about the benjamins, isn't it? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:32 PM Response to Reply #142 |
146. If you say so |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:44 PM Response to Reply #146 |
153. Are you gonna tell him about it? |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:57 PM Response to Reply #46 |
162. Excuse me but you brought up SLANDER |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:59 PM Response to Reply #162 |
163. Read the vitriol here toward men |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:27 PM Response to Reply #163 |
174. You are providing biased info to begin with, Hon |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 04:40 AM Response to Reply #174 |
182. Sure, The government allowed them to lie? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:45 PM Response to Reply #26 |
70. BWAA HA HA HA! |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:09 PM Response to Reply #24 |
83. lol? LOL??? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:14 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. Were you here last night? |
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Rainbowreflect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
8. I work in the field & there are plenty of dead beat parents. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:31 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Great reply |
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mr_du04 (170 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. what really bugs me is... |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:48 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Agreed it is illegal, |
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mr_du04 (170 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:50 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. It is illegal? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:56 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. It is in IL |
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mr_du04 (170 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:57 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. that is another thing that bugs me |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:16 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. My folks did too |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:40 PM Response to Reply #11 |
98. Yeah, if you don't get to see it, just let it starve... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
12. Replying to other DUers posts |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:55 PM Response to Reply #12 |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 02:58 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. IIRC for the first 8 years of the kids life |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:22 PM Response to Reply #20 |
29. IIRC |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:33 PM Response to Reply #29 |
36. If he needed to be asked |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:50 PM Response to Reply #36 |
47. Never said he wasn't |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:02 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. Deleted message |
LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:19 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Thanks for proving my point |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:23 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. You asked me |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:32 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. This tread has nothing to do with the other thread. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:33 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Sorry dude... |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:40 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Whatever VelmaD |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:52 PM Response to Reply #41 |
49. Just because you aren't a "deadbeat dad".... |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:14 PM Response to Reply #49 |
54. hogwash! |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:22 PM Response to Reply #54 |
59. knee-jerk reaction much? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:30 PM Response to Reply #59 |
64. Special Brownies? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:45 PM Response to Reply #59 |
101. my guess is: he's either a very young, inexperienced man |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:48 PM Response to Reply #101 |
122. NIce |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:53 PM Response to Reply #122 |
126. right...you were one of the ones arguing |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:00 PM Response to Reply #126 |
129. Never said that either! |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:36 PM Response to Reply #34 |
38. I'm not attacking you |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:47 PM Response to Reply #38 |
45. WHERE WHERE WHERE |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:56 PM Response to Reply #45 |
52. I was a mod for several terms |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:33 PM Response to Reply #30 |
147. I have no idea |
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chiburb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:00 PM Response to Reply #12 |
21. Oh, stop it... |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
28. Well, it's not fair to blame women or imply that women are always at fault |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:26 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Nice post |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:44 PM Response to Reply #31 |
44. What happened to me is what happened to me. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:52 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Every divorce, and every marriage, is unique. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:36 PM Response to Reply #44 |
149. Oh my effing god. |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:57 PM Response to Reply #149 |
161. I didn't want to go into detail, but... |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:55 PM Response to Reply #31 |
105. Why would someone be attacked for telling the truth of |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:50 PM Response to Reply #105 |
125. What the heck are you talking about? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:29 PM Response to Reply #125 |
143. I'm not surprised that you don't know. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:33 PM Response to Reply #143 |
148. You are all over the place |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:46 PM Response to Reply #148 |
155. No, child, I'm right here. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:51 PM Response to Reply #155 |
159. Again what are you talking about |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:24 PM Response to Reply #28 |
60. sorry your mom was selfish, but your story is hardly "typical" |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:42 PM Response to Reply #60 |
121. That's sad. I met all kinds... |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:56 PM Response to Reply #121 |
127. Thanks for bringing you experience and wisdom |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:57 PM Response to Reply #121 |
128. wow...amazing what people think is acceptable |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:03 PM Response to Reply #128 |
132. The facts are quite different from what you believe. |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:23 PM Response to Reply #132 |
138. Our opinions are always colored by our experiences, but take care... |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:30 PM Response to Reply #138 |
144. I agree with nearly every word. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
35. The whole system is screwed |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:20 PM Response to Reply #35 |
172. I am so sorry Stargazer |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
50. not this tired old whinefest again |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:16 PM Response to Original message |
56. As a gay person, all this does is prove to me that DOMA is a sham |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:24 PM Response to Reply #56 |
61. Don't blame us hetero non-breeders, we don't have any children to tell |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:40 PM Original message |
I need to protect my right to marry my seventh wife! |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
110. That's hilarious. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:40 PM Response to Reply #56 |
68. I need to protect my right to marry my seventh wife! |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:24 PM Response to Reply #56 |
91. One of the (minor) reasons I'm in favor of gay marriage ... |
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Selwynn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:04 PM Response to Reply #56 |
133. I've been saying this for so fucking long... |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
57. men get routinely screwed in American divorce courts |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
58. reality check: how many people know deadbeat fathers? |
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TecnoCrat (47 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:41 PM Response to Reply #58 |
69. I do. |
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Selwynn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:02 PM Response to Reply #58 |
131. Yo! |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:15 PM Response to Reply #58 |
136. I know of many |
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TexasSissy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
63. Bullcracky. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:07 PM Response to Reply #63 |
82. I don't believe you for a second.. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 06:15 PM Response to Reply #82 |
88. I think the assertion is that the man wants out, but the woman |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 07:23 PM Response to Reply #88 |
118. I understood... |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:21 PM Response to Reply #118 |
137. How can that be? |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:25 PM Response to Reply #137 |
140. Come ON.. |
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TexasSissy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 12:23 AM Response to Reply #82 |
180. I can only report what I've seen in my life, and I've |
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Selwynn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
130. There are lots of bad dads. There are lots of good dads. |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
139. All of the reports you cite are somewhat biased |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:40 PM Response to Reply #139 |
150. Well, that is a freaking shock. |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:46 PM Response to Reply #150 |
154. The sad fact is that the kids get screwed in the end |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:15 PM Response to Reply #154 |
169. Very True |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:46 PM Response to Reply #139 |
156. Heck just use the census |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:01 PM Response to Reply #156 |
164. no the census isn't biased but it states facts but not reasons |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:19 PM Response to Reply #164 |
171. I'm not saying that. Never have. |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
145. Here is the CENSUS data 5 out of 6 single parent households |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:44 PM Response to Reply #145 |
152. It says allot more than that! |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:49 PM Response to Reply #152 |
157. So women who are statistically paid less would never get their kids |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:02 PM Response to Reply #157 |
165. Income shouldn't be the primary factor. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:12 PM Response to Reply #165 |
167. I agree with ya! |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:07 PM Response to Reply #157 |
166. I am not impliying anything You brought these charts |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:14 PM Response to Reply #166 |
168. Does it cite the reason women were awarded custody???? |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:24 PM Response to Reply #168 |
173. Social Practice? |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:40 PM Response to Reply #173 |
177. how? |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
151. Well well |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
170. who actually files is irrelevant |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 09:31 PM Response to Reply #170 |
176. Thank You! n/t |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 04:57 AM Response to Reply #170 |
187. Please post liknks to the fathers rights groups statements |
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October (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
178. Love to believe this...my own dad was indeed a deadbeat |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-15-04 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
179. My father was a deadbeat dad. |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 04:55 AM Response to Reply #179 |
186. Thanks for an honest post |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 06:28 AM Response to Reply #186 |
189. You're welcome. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
181. OK, I read the other thread....and most of this one |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 04:52 AM Response to Reply #181 |
185. What are you talking about? |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 05:28 AM Response to Original message |
188. Boo Hoo Hoo |
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sadiesworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-16-04 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
190. I was in private practice for seven years... |
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