Here's the homepage for the Annenberg Public Policy Center:
http://www.annenbergpublicpolicycenter.org/index.HTMIt has the survey you mentioned (dated 10/15/04), but the next day released a survey which is titled "Service members, families, say Pentagon sent too few troops to Iraq, stressed National Guard and Reserves, should allow photos of coffins at Dover."
To me, this illustrates a blind kind of patriotism to Bush in our military, even though the majority do not think he's handled it well. So you might talk to your friend about not being a sheep who blindly follows a shepard into a foxhole!
Another couple of sites you might check out for arguments are:
Veterans Against the Iraq War:
http://www.vaiw.org/vet/index.phpMilitary Families Speak Out:
http://www.mfso.org/main_f.htmlNational Priorities Project Cost of War:
http://www.costofwar.com/And tho he's probably not a Michael Moore fan, I think the "Letters From The Troops" section of his website is interesting:
http://www.michaelmoore.com/books-films/willtheyevertrustusagain/Good luck! My boyfriend is a Gulf War vet, pro-military guy, and he can't stand Bush. So there's hope!
(edited to include more links)