A few days ago I posted a poll looking for opinions on how to handle a situation where a 12 year old girl was caught having sex with a 17 year old boy. I was asked to post a followup to let everyone know what happened. I remind you that I'm not the one that found them or called the police, but it was actually a post by a DU'er here that convinced my coworker to make the call and turn them in. Oh, and if you missed the first thread, it can be found here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=105&topic_id=1216545Over half of the people who responded to the poll felt that he should just forget about it, and more than one person seemed irritated that he'd think about interfering at all. I'm glad I didn't listen to those people.
My coworker called the police after he got home, shortly after my last post in that thread. The police questioned the girl, who admitted what had happened, and then took the boy into custody for molesting a child under the age of 14. He's now going to be facing some extremely serious charges.
Turns out, this story was even sicker than we knew...those of you who thought that there was "more" to the story were dead on correct. Apparently, about two years ago, the girls parents had begun regularly hiring the then 15 year old boy to babysit all of their children, including the then ten year old girl. The story she told the police, which the boy has apparently already admitted to, was that he began regularly molesting her following the first time he babysat, and that they had their first penetrative sex just before the girls 11th birthday.
When the girl was about 11 1/2, the girls fundie mother apparently walked in on them kissing. Both claimed that it was the first time it had ever happened, so the mother simply fired the boy and wrote it off to the simple experimentation of two teenage kids :eyes:
By this time, the poor girl was confused and convinced that she was in "love" with him, and continued to sneak out for sexual trysts at
11 years old. She became slavishly dedicated to him to the point that she screwed two of his friends while he watched (while she was still 11) simply because "that's what he wanted"...talk about TWISTED! The two other boys (who were 14 or 15 at the time) haven't been arrested or charged yet, but that may happen soon as well.
The girls fundie parents didn't react badly as we'd originally feared, because they're looking at it as a simple molestation/rape/brainwashing, and aren't holding any of it against her (which they shouldn't, of course). He DID mention the fundie dad's abuse of the other kids to the investigating officers, and they said that they'd look into that, but nothings come of it yet (the police are more interested in the molester than a dad that smacks his son around).
I'd like to thank those of you that recommended calling, even though the poll numbers were running against you. This little girl is going to need some serious counseling to straighten her head out, because she still insists that she's in love with him and wants to defend him, but your responses helped convince my co worker to call the police, which unintentionally saved this girl from an absolutely evil sexual predator.
DU'ers ROCK! :yourock: