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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:08 AM
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What's your biggest turn-on?
What turns you on? Is it ear-blowing? Is it caressing? Is it talking sexy?

What's your biggest turn on?

Please...keep this PG-13. We don't want to get this thread locked, do we? :)
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belladonna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:11 AM
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1. Intelligence and humor
Seriously, the best foreplay starts LONG before you hit the sheets :D
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Leprechan29 Donating Member (391 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:30 AM
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16. I second that motion
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 09:56 AM
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51. No contest.... Intelligence and Humor... gender's kinda important too :)
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:11 AM
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2. Man, I'm sensing your frustration tonight!
Mine's a secret! Ya gotta find it is my theory.
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:17 AM
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10. You have no idea...
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NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:12 AM
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3. reading about politics in a political forum
:)
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:12 AM
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4. i like it when she nibbles/bites...
Edited on Tue Jun-08-04 01:13 AM by LastKnight
dosent really matter where...


-LK
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:15 AM
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5. I know what you mean!
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:17 AM
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9. really, you and the whole vampire thing, and the pic of the female vamp...
Edited on Tue Jun-08-04 01:17 AM by LastKnight
that you posted earlier woulda given me no idea whatsoever. lol

-LK
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:18 AM
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11. ROFL!
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:16 AM
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6. I like...
being tickled/caressed on my arms and stomach. That's a really big turn-on!
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:16 AM
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7. Olive oil
"Its not just for the kitchen anymore"

Makes your bedroom smell like an Italian restaurant!
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DoveTurnedHawk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:56 AM
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66. Not Sure If That's What Billy Joel Had in Mind!
:evilgrin:

DTH
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imax2268 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:16 AM
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8. long legs...
with a personality attached...
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:19 AM
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12. voluptious women

I like women that are "meaty beaty big-n-bouncy". Large natural breasts with a set of hips and thighs to match. Mmmm-hmmmm!
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:20 AM
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14. Amen!
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:20 AM
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You sure you're far from TN?
:)
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:29 AM
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45. It's not that far, is it?
;)
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fudge stripe cookays Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 10:17 AM
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53. I knew there was a reason I liked you!
Any man who knows that women like Marilyn and Sophia Loren are the fantasy ideal, instead of these skeleton super model things we have now is obviously a gentleman of taste and intelligence.

:-)
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LiberalVoice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:47 AM
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63. Couldn't agree more. More cushion for the pushin! n/t
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huellewig Donating Member (700 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:19 AM
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13. A girl that smells exactly like my mother..
Edited on Tue Jun-08-04 01:21 AM by huellewig
drives me nuts.. In a good way.






{edit: this was supposed to go in the "Things NOT To Say While Posting at DU." thread..}
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:20 AM
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15. ...
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MallRat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 10:20 AM
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55. File under: Too Much Information.
errmmm... I got nothing, huellewig.
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Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:31 AM
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17. french manicures
Edited on Tue Jun-08-04 01:31 AM by Champ
I'm a sucker for 'em. :)
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:32 AM
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18. thats freedom manicures, dammit. nt
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Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:36 AM
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21. Hahahahaha
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stanwyck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 12:11 PM
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71. No. "murican"
manicures. Not quite as dramatic as the French...but more patriotic.
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:33 AM
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19. *smacks forehead*
No comment. :D
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Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:45 AM
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26. I'm good at getting no comments from you
:D
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:47 AM
Response to Reply #26
27. oh be quiet.
I'm just trying to stay awake!
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Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:52 AM
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30. I know an effective way to keep you awake
This is what my grandma used to do to wake my lazy ass up.

*Dumps a bucket of ice cold water on Blondie* :evilgrin:

(I'm so sorry, forgive me :D I'll send doggy pics!)
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:53 AM
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31. AHHHHHH!!!!
COLD COLD COLD! And my white shirt!! ACK!! :spank:
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Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:56 AM
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34. According to the smiley I'm liking it
Edited on Tue Jun-08-04 01:56 AM by Champ
So keep going :D

So is will there be an insomniac thread tonight?
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:56 AM
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36. Screw that.
I'm too exhausted.
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Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:58 AM
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37. Rough day?
Mine was pretty rough.
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:34 AM
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20. What?
To each his own, I guess...
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:39 AM
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22. Men who try to turn me on.
Add to that intelligence, humor, compassion, and that special sort of mix of masculinity and vulnerability simultaneously and I start swooning.
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Spinzonner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:53 AM
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32. Oh, not this estrogen-obsessed sensitivity crap

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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:56 AM
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35. There's a balance.
Edited on Tue Jun-08-04 01:59 AM by SarahBelle
A man who's strong enough to tell me his innermost feelings and later that evening.... and later....


self-edit- went a little overboard on the later part. Ooops.
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K8-EEE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:42 AM
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23. The Horrible And Selfish Truth Is
I like it when somebody is head over heels in love with me. Especially the nervous/shy/tongue tied type of guy!
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:45 AM
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25. I'm that type of guy.
At times.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:45 AM
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24. A like my men...
Who can somehow survive with me being away for more than two weeks :)
Seriously though...I like men with beards. And with a little meat on em'.
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Paragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:48 AM
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28. Intelligence.
No, wait - boobs.
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:49 AM
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29. Haha!
I hear that!
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Gothic Sponge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 01:54 AM
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33. What's my biggest turn-on?
Edited on Tue Jun-08-04 01:54 AM by Gothic_Sponge
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:02 AM
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38. So, what's your biggest turn on, Lestat?
Aside from girls and drinking blood that is?
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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:03 AM
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39. Right here.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:04 AM
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40. Ahhh, ok.
:)
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Mobius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:11 AM
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41. Vampires
seriously. Live forever, love forever and feeding on freepers. What could be better? :shrug:
I also have a natural aversion to the sun.

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Lestat Donating Member (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:14 AM
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42. Interesting...
I'd like that too...the whole living and loving forever.

I do like the sun, so if the opportunity arose, I don't think I'd take it.
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Mobius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:17 AM
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43. I would, I've known that since I was 5
and watching Christopher Lee Dracula movies. I wrote a short story for school in the 4th grade about being a vampire, and I had to go talk to the principal, because they thought something was wrong with me LOL
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 02:18 AM
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44. ...attention
No seriously, I'd say..... the first kiss
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3rdParty Donating Member (119 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 09:43 AM
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46. Brains.......Big........Huge.......Natural.......Brains!!!! :)
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BigMcLargehuge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 09:44 AM
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47. heels, nice smile
smarts, red hair

in that order
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 09:45 AM
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48. Soiled Huggies
:crazy:
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 09:47 AM
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49. If I told...
then everybody would do it and then I wouldn't be able to use it as a means of figuring out who "gets it". :)
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bearfan454 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 09:53 AM
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50. I like to cuddle with Mrs bearfan
nekkid.
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Shananigans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 09:59 AM
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52. Initially, it's the smile...
when I first meet a guy and he has one of those beautiful "meets the eyes" smiles, I just melt.

When we get to a further stage it's totally the neck thing. Touching, kissing, blowing, nibbling...anything to do with my neck and I'm YOURS!
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CO Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 10:18 AM
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54. My Wife
After eleven years of marriage, she still turns me on.

:-)
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skypilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 10:21 AM
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56. Feet.
Feet can make or break a guy for me. If he has nice feet all he need do is walk past me barefoot.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 12:02 PM
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69. I second that-
I was afraid some folks here would consider me a freak, but anyway-
If a lady has gross feet, then forget it.
So there, I'm "out of the shoebox," DUers!
:evilgrin:
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skypilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 12:11 PM
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72. There are all kinds of freaks here.
Let your freak flag fly!!
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sus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 10:21 AM
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57. a pulse. but i'm open-minded..
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fudge stripe cookays Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 10:22 AM
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58. Pretty eyes, nice artsy hands, and dark 5 O'clock shadow
I have a thing for sensitive, long-dark-haired guys that play the guitar, and/or are artists.

I finally got me a good one! 'Cept his hair's not long. I can live with that.

FSC
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skypilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:40 AM
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61. You and I...
...seem to have very similar taste. Congrats on your sensitive artist with short hair.:)
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fudge stripe cookays Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:55 AM
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65. Thanks! He's our very own reprehensor.
Quite a catch, I must say.

Had to farm out to Canada, since Texan men were a lost cause.

FSC
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 10:40 AM
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59. I'm with the women who say "intelligence and humor" as indicated by
wicked glints in the eyes. No wicked glints, and you won't get past "hello, my name is..."

A sweet smile (coexisting with the wicked glints). Put the two together and I am slain.

Masculine in a Gregory Peck way, without all that suburban macho "ignorant and proud of it because sports and ass-whuppin' of brown people are all that's important" homophobic Republican armchair warrior crap

A wide-ranging intelligence and good verbal skills (sadly lacking in our culture)

Considerate and compassionate without being a doormat. I guess you'd call it compassion through inner strength.

Lately I've developed a preference for European (especially British Isles) and East Asian men. Except for obvious exceptions such as Arnold Schwarzenegger, they're not into that Republican armchair warrior crap.

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fudge stripe cookays Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:59 AM
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68. I like Asians too
but that sort of exotic "What exactly is he?" look...

I love guys that are some interesting combo of black or anglo, Samoan, Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese...

Think Brandon Lee, or Jason Scott Lee....the faintly slanted dark eyes, olive skin, and dark hair.

Woof!
FSC
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:00 AM
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60. On a woman, abs - on a man, butt
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Guy_Montag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:43 AM
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62. Getting a girl to...
you know...

Enjoy herself a lot
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screwfacecapone Donating Member (215 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:50 AM
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64. my perfect girl
good looks (you don't have to be a supermodel, but I'm not dating jabba the hut)
Someone who is intellegent
honesty (unfortunantely this seems to be a bit too much to ask these days)
someone voluptous (not fat, just well rounded)
someone a bit older than me (I'm 23, I'll go up to 35, 40 if good enough)
and has to be a video gamer.
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 11:56 AM
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67. Being kissed on the back of the neck
By an intelligent, thoughtful, liberal, handsome and humorous man. :swooning:
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dawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-08-04 12:04 PM
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70. Someone who I genuinely like as a person.
Someone who, if there was no such thing as sex, I'd still want to spend lots of time with.

Someone who shares my interests, beliefs and passions.

And that naughty little glint in the eyes doesn't hurt either.
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