What's your biggest turn off ?

[bearfan454]

Mine is when someone lies to me. What about you ?

[Misunderestimator]

1. Yep, lies .... and cheating.... total turnoff

and bad breath :)

[sus]

2. Mine is when someone likes me. I HATE that.

[GOPisEvil]

35. I cannot STAND you.

I loathe your very existence!

:-)

[VelmaD]

3. Selfish people

Guys who want you to do something for them but who won't reciprocate by doing something you want are a huge turn off. So are guys who aren't comfortable with their body.

[Guy_Montag]

7. So what would that be?

Anything in particular? ;)

[VelmaD]

10. Not sure how to answer that without...

violating that whole "NO SEX THREAD" rule. :)

[Guy_Montag]

12. I can guess...

I'm not quite that innocent.

[dawg]

22. Well, I'm certainly willing to do back what's done to me ...

But who isn't at least a little insecure about their body, at least some of the time?

[VelmaD]

24. Reciprocity is good...

though sometimes you gotta go first. :)

I'm not talking about being insecure with your body. Hell, sometimes I'm still insecure. I'm talking about being comfortable with your sexuality. I've known too many guys who had hang ups about what they were "supposed" to enjoy.

[dawg]

31. As long as it's a girl doing it to me ...

and it doesn't hurt too much, it's ALL good! :evilgrin:

[Lydia Leftcoast]

4. Greasy hair, on the most superficial level, followed by

an "ignorant and proud of it" attitude or a narrowness of focus, the type of guy who can talk about his job and sports, period.

Having read Velma's post, I'd like to add lack of empathy, which seems to go along with lack of a physical sense. The guy who flops around aimlessly when trying to dance is the same kind of guy who can't figure out how to give a satisfying back rub or provide a satisfying experience in bed. Or figure out that sometimes people have problems through no fault of their own.

[SheilaT]

5. Smoking.

It's incredibly unattractive, and smokers themselves not only stink but if they smoke long enough, their teeth get yellow and awful, their skin is gray and wrinkled. Yuck.

[SiouxJ]

13. I just don't think I could bring myself to kiss a smoker

except for maybe Johnny Depp :-)

That whole "kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray" thing comes to mind whenever I think about it.

Aside from that I'd say my other biggest turn off is arrogance.

[Ernesto]

15. Yes, I often wonder about

married couples where one smokes & the other doesn't. That's got to be a major compromise for the non-smoker.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

21. i smoke my wife doesnt

she would rather i not smoke....but honestly i really dont think its that big a deal

[SheilaT]

27. It's not a big deal for her

at this point because you've probably been a smoker as long as you two have known each other. If you give it up you'll probably hear her say things like, "He smells so sweet now." That's something a woman I know whose long-time smoking husband gave it up a few years ago. She had been used to it, but was amazed and happy at how nice he smelled, how much better the house smelled.

What most smokers simply don't understand is how easy it is to smell a smoker. They just reek. Their clothing reeks. I grew up in the 50's when "everyone" smoked, including both my parents, and I was used to it. But over the years, as fewer people smoke, and more and more places are smoke free, it's just harder and harder to tolerate.

[bearfan454]

6. I also hate when both people aren't into it all the way.

Sometimes I even joke about it. I say, honey can you move your leg like you did that one time ? We laugh.

[Robb]

8. Dumbness

Seriously, not everything I say is hilarious.

[salinen]

9. When she farts while making love

oh, wait, that turns me on.

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

16. depends on the origin of it, if you know what I mean

:evilgrin:

[salinen]

19. Oh my NSMA

yes, eenie, meenie, they both work for me. Otherwise, I am a perfectly normal male. hehe.

[Misunderestimator]

23. Yowza! *ahem*

[Magrittes Pipe]

11. Attractive women who don't want to have relations with me.

Rare, yes. Still, it makes me sad. :cry:

[LiberalVoice]

18. I know what you mean...

Sometimes I look at them and I'm like, "What? You don't want THIS?" Then laugh...


But inside I cry.





No I guess I cry outside too.

[skypilot]

14. A grown man trying to...

...give me a hickey. It's amazing that there are GROWN men out there who actually do this.

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

17. On the superficial level ....plaque

on the other level....I dunno

[Misunderestimator]

26. Hey, anybody got dental floss?

[screwfacecapone]

20. the usual, and a few more

lying, cheating, and not returning my messages. I understand if you are on vacation, but If I leave a phone message, and you take more than a week to get back to me, I can't roll with you.

I also can't stand goldiggers.

[Misunderestimator]

25. How much gold do you have? And...

Did you get it being a pirate? :evilgrin:

[DS1]

28. Dark birthmarks with thick black hairs coming out of them

:scared:

I know, they're birthmarks and there's nothing they can do about them, but hey I can be a superficial bastard too.

[Servo300]

29. Foul language.

[Endangered Specie]

30. Selfishness...

Talking alot is okay, but me not getting a chance to speak (or acknoledgment when I do) is a (-).

[sniffa]

32. body odor & ugLy feet

and not necessariLy, stinky b.o. but someone's naturaL scent is sometimes repuLsive to me.

and ugLy feet. shiver

[SmileyBoy]

33. Bad breath

:(

[GOPisEvil]

34. Liars and the willfully ignorant.

[belladonna]

36. Mine is more about attitude than any one THING

I find that men claim they want certain things, and when they get them, suddenly they're not so sure it's a great thing. My ex loved the idea of an independent woman, non-clingy, who loved sex even more than he did and wasn't afraid to admit it. Strangely enough, two of those qualities are the very things that ended the relationship. Turns out I was a little TOO independent, and gee, if I'm not at home clinging to him, I MUST be out there clinging to someone else. Ugh, give me a break :eyes: