I am in love with a fellow DUer...

[TN al]

...should I tell her

[m-jean03]

1. Sure, I can take it!

:silly:

[iconoclastic cat]

2. Have you met, or do you a text fetish?

[bubblesby2002]

3. Yes you should.....now

nt

[flamingyouth]

4. Yes, you should

Life is short - go for it! :D

[Dogmudgeon]

5. Me, too

Only in my case, it could result in a class-action suit.

--bkl
My bad.

[Commendatori]

6. Are you ready to step it up if she responds well?

If so, go for it. But if you're not willing to a.) move, or b.) visit her weekly, forget it. Long distance relationships suck, and the flame can only burn so long over the phone.

[tom_paine]

7. Maybe approach it tactfully. Don't just come right out and say "I love

you."

But in general, HELL YES!

Good luck.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

8. umm why are you in love with her?

[shadu]

9. If you are too shy, tell us and WE will tell her for you

Have you met this DUer in person?
If not, go slow.

[ZenLefty]

10. Tell us who she is first.

And we'll decide if you should tell her. :D

[boobooday]

11. Bring it on!

Ya gotta -- no regrets!

[Bonhomme Richard]

12. Go for it. Live every day like it's your last.

Worst that can happen is rejection. What was it said? "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"

[La Lioness Priyanka]

13. tennyson

[northzax]

and didn't he die

all miserable and shrunken?

good example. me thinks.

[Bonhomme Richard]

29. Jeez...Your a tough crowd. LOL n/t

[flamingyouth]

19. Exactly

I feel that I'm somewhat of an expert on this right now. I think it's great and that TN al should proclaim his love. :D

[TN al]

14. I feel pretty confident that I can tell her...

...'cause I am married to her. :) But I thank you for your support. And what the hell, I love you all too.

[salinen]

16. You're a rat.

[shadu]

21. In that case: Don't do it!

it will make you all embarrassed

[flamingyouth]

22. Ooooh, you devil!

Had me going there, I admit! :D

[northzax]

24. but is she turning 40?

don't do it then, might get the wrong impression.

[Lavender Brown]

25. Aw, that was romantic!

Which Du-er is your wife?

[TN al]

30. lyrical di is my beloved...

...and I better leave it at that or I am sure I will put my foot in it and ruin the special moment.

[SarahB]

15. I vote no.

Even if she made all sorts of declarations to you inserting that infamous little word at times and many other words as well. I'm for guarding your heart. That word is trouble IMHO. Never be the first to say it.

[DS1]

23. NI ! NI !

NI! NI !

[northzax]

26. at least consult an attorney

nothing says I love you like a prenup.

[northzax]

27. at least consult an attorney

nothing says I love you like a prenup.

[shadu]

17. Marry the girl (I know a great divorce lawyer who works wholesale)

[Magrittes Pipe]

18. I am in love with several DUers.

Mighty beautiful bunch we've got here, on the inside as well as the outside.

Sure, go ahead and tell -- but just so we're on the same page, I am not a "her." :P

[jobycom]

20. If she doesn't recognize that it's her from this post, then no!!

If she does, you already did.

Telling someone you love them when they don't have a clue you would even think of feeling that way is kinda creepy. Women used to do it to me all the time (back when I was cute!). Not fun.

[Pithlet]

28. I'm betting

that she already knows ;)

Oops, I see that you already did. :)

[lyrical di]

31. what a sweet romantic

After the really rough day, to read such an open declaration of love. I'm touched.

[angee_is_mad]

32. Do it Do it

don't be shy

[Anarcho-Socialist]

33. Go on, tell her n/t