If you were in a happy relationship...

[Deja Q]

Would you post your profile, with R-rated pics (with some X-rated pics on a per-request basis) on a personals site for all to see while flaunting "I am in a great monogamous relationship of 12 years, imagine that! There is NO CHANCE of a hookup..."

I wouldn't waste other peoples' time.

And I'd be insulted by his flaunting of his relationship stats. Is he proud of being in a relationship or happy to boast about how much better he thinks he is? :shrug:

[NC_Nurse]

1. You're right

that's bullshit!:eyes:

[VOX]

2. If he's so happy, he wouldn't be seeking this kind of attention...

Something, somewhere isn't so great with this person. Flirting a bit is okay -- we all do that -- but claiming to be in "a great monogamous relationship of 12 years" while simultaneously showing off his bod in an overt, sexual manner seems to indicate some kind of need that's not being met. At best, he's signaling confusion about the long-term relationship itself.

Just my nickel's worth.

[Deja Q]

3. He is also a 'premium' member...

Supporting the website (which owns another, so that organization is getting plenty of dough) or an even more suspicious hypocrite?

I gave up on the church he plays at when they started acting VERY *-friendly. (it's an MCC, the type of church * will not see as being authentic unless he's doped up and doesn't realize it at the time...)

[NightTrain]

4. Sounds like a real douche bag!

[Deja Q]

5. He's only human...

Nobody's perfect.

I don't know what to say...

[NightTrain]

6. So is Sean Hannity, but he's a douche bag too!

[TrogL]

7. Link?

[pagerbear]

8. He's a fucking liar.

No, I'll take that back. Some monogamous couples consider cybersex to be OK, and it's possible that's what this man is looking for. If not, he's clearly lying.

No matter what the case, this is a man I would suggest you leave alone.