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Edited on Wed Aug-25-04 11:25 AM by Coventina
In October, the SO's best friend is having his kid baptized. He wants SO to be a "sponsor" for the kid (used to be called "Godfather"). Which means we have to fly across the country for this. In the middle of the semester.
I've met the SO's friend when he's come out for visits, never met the wife or the baby. We're supposed to stay for like 3 or 4 days, which I think is a really long time to spend in a woman's home I've never met before.
When the SO and the friend get together, pretty much all they do is drink, get drunk and act like drunken jerks.
What makes the whole thing more ridiculous (in my eyes) is that the couple never goes to church anyway, so why get the kid baptized? And, my SO never goes to church, and doesn't think highly of organized religion either. And he's going to stand up for the kid and pledge to ensure a religious upbringing? The whole thing just seems kind of stupid to me, but the SO is mad at my attitude.
I'm a horrible person, I guess. I don't want to be there for my SO's oldest friend's kid's baptizm. :-(
Sorry, just had to vent.....
On edit: plus, I'm terrified of flying, which also adds to my bad attitude about the whole thing....
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