When is it "me" night at your place ?

[bearfan454]

Tonight is "me" night for Mrs bearfan. She moved back in a few nights ago. We were seperated for about a month because of my stupidity. I am making filet mignon, mashed potatoes and gravy, lima beans(I hate them but she likes them), and carrot cake(store bought). I will do the dishes, make a bubble bath with rose pedals for her, and give her a head to toe body rub with lotion. I hope it is "me" night pretty soon for me.

[redqueen]

1. Never

Lucky her!

[flamingyouth]

2. Wow, that's really nice of you

Glad you were able to work things out! :hi:

[SarahB]

3. For me?

Never.
For everyone else? Every day, but that will change soon. Life is what you make of it and I'm trying to make something better.

Mrs. Bearfan's a lucky lucky. It's nice when a man can admit when he is wrong and do the work to make things better instead of blaming her for his mistakes.

[bearfan454]

4. It was my f#ck up all the way.

No more wasted to the gills every night. I don't blame her at all. I'm lucky she didn't divorce me and bankrupt me.

[Rainbowreflect]

5. Maybe I can get my hubby to do that for me.

He did not even give me a card on our anniversary on Tuesday.
He had to work that night so we went out to dinner on Monday night.
Tuesday morning I gave him his card & he said he did not have a card for me. I figured I would get flowers & a card at work that day. He always sends flowers on our anniversary if I am working. No flowers, no card, no gift nothing. I'm still a little hurt.

[NMDemDist2]

9. are you going to a recovery program

it may help you stay focused

best luck bearfan and have fun

[redqueen]

7. Are you spying on me or something?

"instead of blaming her for his mistakes."

I swear... you could be listening in on us, really.

[SarahB]

8. Well...

I know Bearfan a little and he sounds like a good man. No one is perfect, but he sounds like a man who loves his wife enough to try to make things right.
For me, for years I tried to make things right and it wasn't for me to make right. I was already right. Anyone, I don't know your circumstances, Redqueen, but if they were anything like mine, I truly empathize. :hug:

[Rowdyboy]

6. We have "our" time when we pamper each other....

Saturday morning is usually coffee and the paper, breakfast in bed, followed by extended adult behavior. Then lunch out at our favorite Mexican restaurant, followed by a few beers and maybe a nap. A relaxing evening completes the day...