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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:31 PM
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Guy here at work wears the same cologne as my first boyfriend.
This is terribly disconcerting for several reasons:

A. That I can tell this to begin with. I'm almost 29. I dated this first boyfriend when I was 14.

B. That I know it's Drakkar Noir from scent alone. Preppy. Oy. (I never cared for it, but at least I'm not allergic to it.)

C. That I'm now associating a decent person at work with a guy who let condoms fall out of his wallet in front of me and then told me, "oops, you weren't supposed to see those until later -- it was going to be a surprise." He broke up with me a couple of weeks later, the condoms remaining unused. (He was clueless, but ultimately harmless.)

Anyone have a scent that dredges up old memories, good or bad?
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:34 PM
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1. Drakkar Noir reminds me of my first boyfriend, too
All 6' 4" of him. Oh, he was glorious. Lost my virginity to him so when I smell Drakkar, I always think back to a wonderful stormy night in March.

Sigh....
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:35 PM
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2. You seem to have had a much better Drakkar Boy than I did.
Mine was short (didn't matter -- I'm short), and, like I said...clueless.
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:53 PM
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21. Oh, he dumped me for my best friend two weeks before prom
Don't get me wrong - he turned out to be a scumbucket.

Having said that, I will say that he was glorious! When I came back from Basic and Advanced Training in the Army, I was all buff and skinny. I went over to his house and talked him into having dinner with me. Then I kind of talked him into having sex with me for old time's sake. He was still glorious but I had the upper hand because I was stronger mentally and I left him with a "thanks" and didn't look back on the way out the door.

Ah, he was built and just.... sigh. He smelled so good.
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StClone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:37 PM
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4. I am Glad Men don't wear "Navy"
That brings back...ah, never mind.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:37 PM
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3. Several.
Edited on Thu Sep-09-04 02:37 PM by Beware the Beast Man
Drakkar Noir- my first "real" cologne. Didn't help me score any either.

Patchouly- reminds me of my damn dirty hippy college years.

Vanilla- I had an ex that wore it. I still like it though, because my wife wears Hypnotic Poison, which has a vanilla scent to it.

Mango- another ex. Makes me gag now.
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:38 PM
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5. I like vanilla
and I am a guy

DDQM
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:43 PM
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13. 38 in 9 days
it is a nice scent. Can you reccommend something new. not to overbearing?
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:56 PM
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26. Don't wear Addias. It smells like stinky feet. n/t
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:38 PM
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7. And I bet you're in your late 20s to early 30s, right?
Did every man born in the early-mid 70s wear that stuff? (The guy at work is a bit older than that, though.)
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:40 PM
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9. I never wore Drakkar.
My high-school girlfriend made me wear "Colors" a few times.

Other than that, I heve never worn cologne in my life.
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:50 PM
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20. And my sinuses thank you.
Colors.

hahahahahaha
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:41 PM
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10. Oh, yeah. That was the Gold Standard
Edited on Thu Sep-09-04 02:43 PM by Beware the Beast Man
for teenage boys in the late 80's/early 90's. There were legends on the street about the awesome power of Drakkar. Alas, it was not so...

ON EDIT- you're right. I'm 30.
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:56 PM
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Oh, you needed to drive a Monte Carlo SS and have GnR
blasting on the stereo. I would've... um, you know, with you. ;) Well, you would have had to have been tall. I only dated tall guys in high school.
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:57 PM
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28. So are you also in the late 20s/early 30s demographic, arnheim?
Seems to be a trend.
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:59 PM
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30. Yes, I am and semi-proud to be so
Some of the music back then simply sucked and I apologize for it. LOL!
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:58 PM
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Sorry, I hated GnR
And didn't drive. I was a headbanger turned punk turned grungie in high school. I was tall, though. :P
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:00 PM
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31. Oh, my! Where you a poet too?
I was into sensitive, angst-filled, brooding types, too.

Man, I'm making myself sound like a big old hose-beast but I really wasn't. Had lots of crushes, though.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:04 PM
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34. Yeah, somewhat.
But I was a dork, though. We would have been just friends :)
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:07 PM
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35. I was friends in high school with lots of dorky guys
My nickname in school was Miss Encyclopedia, if that tells you anything. I was very conservative and dressed like a grandma. I was shy and smart - not exactly a man magnet. :(
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:21 PM
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37. Then I probably would have had a crush on you.
I went for the easy prey :evilgrin:
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:24 PM
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38. Wow! I was my friends' walking dictionary, too!
I wasn't particularly conservative (think Lindsay Weir from "Freaks and Geeks"), but a giant dork nonetheless.
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Jo March Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:54 PM
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23. All the guys in high school wore it
and I'm in my early 30s. ;) Good guess.
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:55 PM
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24. recommendations?
DDQM
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:56 PM
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25. Sorry -- I'm not much help.
I don't wear perfume, don't get too into cologne.

Smell clean. That's about it as far as recommendations go.
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:02 PM
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33. no problem there
I have a thing about having to shower 3 times a day. I hate smelling sweaty

DDQM
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:38 PM
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6. Yeah. Olfactory stimulation is the strongest ...
Sens to bring memories. What happens to you when you smell a Crayola crayon ? It brings back memories of your childhood.The brain is a wonderful and mysterious organ.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:39 PM
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8. Drakkar Noir during the day?!
How gauche!
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Beer Snob-50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:41 PM
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11. The first cologne I ever had
was Jovan Musk Oil. It was a gift from an old girlfriend. I cannot remember what she wore, but my Mother found some stupid stuffed animal this girl gave me, and she ahd drenched it in the stuff (to remind me of her). It still had a slight stench of it
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:42 PM
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12. A peculiar combination of candlewax, sandalwood, and spilled leibfraumilch
...is what I think of when I remember a certain bedroom in Paderborn.

:evilgrin:
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:48 PM
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16. What is leibfraumilch ?
Hey,I don't know anything about cologne so spare me for my ignorance, please.
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:49 PM
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17. Cheap, sweet, horrible white wine.
What German winos drink. Go to the store and buy a bottle of "Blue Nun." That is liebfraumilch.
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:54 PM
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22. Are you serious ? Baaaaaaaarf !!!
Well, on the positive side , I learned something new today. :)
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:57 PM
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27. She was SOME good-lookin' woman, though.
Had to be for me to put up with the wine.
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:44 PM
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14. Personally I really don't like perfumes.
Years ago, I dated that wonderful girl but she always put on baby powder (talc)and that smell always made me sick !
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:45 PM
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15. I don't wear the stuff myself
Most of it makes my eyes water. Nothing worse than being stuck on a plane between "Too Much Knock-Off Chanel" and "Spilled The Bottle of Aqua Velva Before I Left."
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:49 PM
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19. Ewww! Yuck !
I hate that too.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:49 PM
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18. Calvin Klein . . .uhm one of those calvin klein ones - One or something
or something

Same thing, smells like an ex-bf.
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SidDithers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:46 PM
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45. Obsession....
was big when I was in University (late 80's)

Sid
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 05:24 PM
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46. This is one that was set up as a unisex kind of fragrance (m)
I think it was called CK One. But I'm not sure.

I sure recognize the scent when I smell it though.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 02:58 PM
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29. LOL
My dad used to wear Drakkar Noir and I once went out with a guy years ago who wore it also and I had trouble getting into him because, well, he smelled like my dad.
I tend to be less of a cologne person though most of the time (or it has to be really light and subtle), for myself and those of the male persuasion as well. :)
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:01 PM
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32. LOL, OK, now that would have been just gross.
My dad, thank god, does not wear cologne, so I never had that experience. (My mom doesn't wear perfume, for that matter.)

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uncle ray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:09 PM
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36. at least it wasn't
Brut...by Faberge.

:puke:

i think i "borrowed" my dad's brut, once!

now i just stay clean generally.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:29 PM
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39. Oh certainly
Drakkar Noir reminds me of one very sweet guy in particular... and yes, your age theory sort of fits.

Polo and Gray Flannel remind me of another ex that I was engaged to for a while.

Lagerfeld reminds me of the photographer I dated. (He was much older than me, so...)

I'm sure there are others that I'm forgetting, but the moment I smell the fragrance... I remember the guy. :)
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:38 PM
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44. I think Drakkar Boy was the only guy I dated who wore cologne.
There are a few other, non-cologne scents I associate with people and places, though.
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Merrick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:31 PM
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40. My ex said she thought of me when her septic pipes broke
but she's just bitter. I dont smell that bad.
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Merrick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:33 PM
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41. what kind of place do you work where the guys where cologne?
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:35 PM
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43. I work at a publishing house.
And don't get me wrong -- it's not massive amounts of cologne. (It could very well just be scented aftershave, if Drakkar makes such. I'm not up on those things.) Just enough for me to recognize when I pass by this guy in the hallway.
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 03:35 PM
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42. Nothing so specific, but
wood smoke on a cold dry day puts me in Colorado. Hot sun on dry grass puts me in Greece.
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-09-04 05:27 PM
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47. OMG
Polo in the green bottle. The ORIGINAL Polo cologne for men. My first major boyfiend and my FIRST wore that all the time.

All I have to do is smell that and it just says "SEX" to me. It's not even particularly good cologne, either. But it is the smell of sex.

I go RIGHT back to 1985 when I smell it.
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