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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:11 PM
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Why does no one ever apologize to me?
On several occasions I've asked for apologies because they said something about me that wasn't true, and that they couldn't back up. On occasion I have been misquoted, or even had lies told about my positions. Again, in the absence of any proof on their part I asked for an apology. Nothing.

I have apologized before. Will do it again when it becomes necessary. Why don't people seem willing to return the common courtesy? Sad really. :-(
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still_one Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:12 PM
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OK, I appologize
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cheezus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:12 PM
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1. why, what a cleaver way of calling people out
without directly calling them out.

you're a genius! the mods will never catch on!
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cheezus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:13 PM
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3. I apoligize for making such an assumption
sorry.
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Dookus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:13 PM
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2. You mean on DU?
People rarely apologize on the internet, and they're even MORE reluctant to do so when somebody asks for or demands an apology. Just the nature of online discussion.
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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:19 PM
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10. Yeah, here on DU.
I think you got it half right really. In general people seem reluctant to apologize. In RT or on the internet. No one likes admiting they are in the wrong.
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4morewars Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:13 PM
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4. Sorry
Some people suck.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:14 PM
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5. Instead of expecting apologies, I use that handy "ignore" feature
It works wonders. ;)
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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:16 PM
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8. Oh I don't expect apologies.
Just ask for them on occassion. Would be nice to get one once in a while.

I don't do the ignore thingy. I think I have used it once and that was to "blast through" the attempts of a disrupter to crash the board. He was posting about 40 threads a minute or something. Was very annoying.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:22 PM
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12. Yeah... I've used it once as well
For the same reasons you mentioned... that I was accused of saying things I never said, and repeatedly all the things I did say were ignored and twisted, and each time I would point that out, another twisted lie was the response... So, yes, I have one person on ignore.
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RandomKoolzip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:40 PM
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18. One person?
Can you read this message?


(I know I pissed you off in a previous thread, and I apologize for that.)
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:42 PM
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19. Nah, it wasn't you... Can one even post to a post of a user that ignores
you? I was thinking not. And people piss me off all the time... doesn't mean I don't like them. I can't even remember you pissing me off. :) Best not to remind me. :bounce:
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RandomKoolzip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:46 PM
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20. Ohh...yeah, uh... it didn't happen!
I was thinking of someone else! (phew...)
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:47 PM
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21. LOL... funny guy
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Worst Username Ever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:14 PM
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6. Did you just say you liked George W Bush?
I think you did.

:P
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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:17 PM
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9. *laugh*
That's actually one of the most common accusations I get. Usually let that one slide w/o comment.
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amber dog democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:14 PM
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7. please accept my regrets
but forgive them. they know not what they do.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:22 PM
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11. I think a lot of people hate to admit when they're wrong
as if doing so is a sign of weakness. (Last I knew, everyone is wrong at least once in their life, so admitting so only means you admit that you're human...)

I hope I haven't offended, or wronged you in any way. If I have, I'm sorry.
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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:26 PM
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14. Well, I don't believe that you have however...

Thank You!



:)

Admiting that you are wrong isn't a sign of weakness. It's a sign of strength.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:25 PM
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13. Okay! Okay! I take it back!
I'm sorry... I was only joking anyway... you're actually quite good at reverse cowgirl.

Geez... such sensitive people here.

;)
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:28 PM
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15. Honey, do you really care...
Edited on Tue Sep-14-04 12:29 PM by VelmaD
what an anonymous idiot on the 'net says about you? Really?

I agree it would be nice if people would apologize for acting like jerks...but I'm not holding my breath.

Whatever it is someone did...I'm sorry it brought down your day. And you know if I ever do something that hurts you all you have to do is say so and I'll apologize. :hug:
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:35 PM
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16. I'm sorry, and i apologize.
I don't know if I ever did anything, but I want you to have a good day. Hugs.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 12:36 PM
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17. Actually, I do owe you an apology.
I used to rather dislike you. But now I think you're just misunderstood. :D
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yorgatron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 01:20 PM
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22. i'm sorry that
i read this.
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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 04:12 PM
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25. OK, gotta ask.
Why are you sorry.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 03:21 PM
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23. Hey! Ya weenie...I gave you a cookie..what MORE do you want?
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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 04:11 PM
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24. Mmmmmmmmmmm, cookie!
:)

I can think of other things I want...World Peace is a bit out of the realm at the moment....and rain is keeping me from finishing the work on my back porch. There are other things of course. :)
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 04:13 PM
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27. Hee...tell me what you want...
you just might get it. ;)
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-14-04 04:13 PM
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26. do you ever apologize to anyone?
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DarkPhenyx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-04 07:18 AM
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28. As stated in my opening post...
...yes I do.
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