I have a dilemna

[redsoxliberal]

I like two girls. I'm pretty sure they both know each other as well, or at least they both have a common link...
so, on to the facts.
I know one of them pretty well... she's really nice but kinda ditzy and I think she may be a repuke. She is really, really hot.
The other one is a freshman, a really fucking hot freshman (I'm a sophmore) and I don't know her, but a good friend of mine is a good friend of hers, so I may have a track there... I don't know her at all, so she potentially has a higher ceiling, because I doubt the other girl would be more than a fling. On the other hand, I don't know the freshman at all...

So... who should I go after?


edited to add the hottness of the freshman...

[JohnKleeb]

1. hmmmm oh man Ive had this dillema lately

with having crushes on two people that I really wanted to maybe date and get to know better. I dont know man, this is tough.

[2Design]

2. flings are not fair to either of you - but you don't usually realize that

until you are in your 30's or 40's

[rurallib]

3. Is a three way possible?

Sorry, fantasizing out loud

[tjdee]

4. WHY do guys like ditzy girls?

Can you go for both? It's still early enough in the game...
Except they know each other, and if some guy was trying to pick up me AND another girl I knew, I'd think he was an idiot (somewhat illogical since no one's married or committed, but still).

BUT--what IS it with guys who like girls who are "kinda ditzy" but "really, really hot"? Is a girl hotter if she's stupid or something? Do you figure since she's ditzy she'll let you in her really really hot pants?

Guys. Ugh.

[JohnKleeb]

5. he said she was nice and guys like that quality

I know some nice ditzes but while I do find them hot, they're not ones I'd date because I like smart girls but not really intelluctals and if they are, I like em humble.

[tjdee]

9. Nice is good....but ditzy...

I can see friendly, outgoing, smiley, nice...the "kinda ditzy" thing though, I just don't get that attraction. Obviously, they're still physically however they'd be if they were smart, though.

[jdots]

6. Ditsy Guggenhiem here

Boys will stop likeing ditsie when girls stop liking hunky
or visa versa versa visa mastercharge & ammex.....remember ditsey and hunky are only skin deep sometimes.

[tjdee]

7. But with hunky, that's at least a physical attribute.

If he said she was really really hot, you know, okay.

Or even that she had a great rack. Cool.

But the fact that ditzy/dim/stupid-ish does not disqualify someone from consideration....that's my issue.

Personally, a ditzy guy would a)get on my nerves, and b)make me feel like I was taking advantage of him because he was dim. Don't get how it's a cute quality, that's all.

[redsoxliberal]

10. the ditzy thing was a negative attribute...

[WinterStorm]

8. Welcome to the adult life

If you want to stay in the relationship go with the one that you can relate to on a mental level if not go with the girl who is looking for a side dish.

[redsoxliberal]

11. Kick