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Okay, so I have a few cats. I have two indoor cats and about 15 out door cats which live around my home. Most of them are strays and drop offs that managed to find sanctuary at my home and are somewhat wild. (I live in the country so there is PLENTY of room for all of them). However, several months ago we had three new arrivals: A Mother and two Kittens. No one knows who they belong to and no one has come asking for them, and although the mother occasionally wanders off the kittens seem to be content to live here and not follow her. There is one kitten, however, who I want to bring into my home. He is extremely tame, which is why I think he used to belong to someone else.
Inside the home there is one male and female cat. They've been spayed, neutered, and declawed (not my idea :()... and I want to introduce them to the most adorable kitten in the world who my 2 and a half year old nephew absolutely loves. He gets a vet check up this week, and once he's given a clean bill of health I am thinking of introducing him to the life of luxury.
All three cats have totally different personalities. The Kitten is a completely submissive male, who just loves attention and affection. He enjoys being held, and even as my young nephew plays a bit rough with him he won't hiss, try to claw, or even try and run away. (He loves attention THAT much.) He's solid black with the exception of his four feet and around his mouth where it is snow white. Thus he has been dubbed "Boots".
The Female Indoor cat isn't originally mine. It belonged to my sister, who couldn't take her with her when she moved, and before that she belonged to someone else. We used to let her go outside before being declawed but had an incident where she wandered off and didn't show up again for 10 days. We think something horrible happened to her during that time because she has never been right since. She is completely skittish around people, even those she trusts, hates loud noises, hates strangers, hates sudden movements, has horrible mood swings, and even hates the other Indoor Male Cat. If cats dream, I also think she has nightmares. She is about 6 years old.
The Male Indoor Cat is about 5 years old, and was born from a litter that lives around here. He was originally an outdoor cat who was brought into the home. As he has gotten older he has gotten more reclusive and "testy", meaning that he really doesn't like all that much attention. (Unless, of course, it involves his good food. He'll do anything for his good food.) He's not ideal for my nephew to play with because he scares him to death. He becomes irritable and even some what aggressive. My nephew loves him, though, and likes to hug him (he's on the fluffy side)... but just being near my nephew freaks him out and I'm always afraid that he'll try and bite him.
That brings Boots back into the picture. I can conceive of the male eventually warming up to Boots, but the female... it isn't likely. In fact I tried showing her Boots and well... let's just say she wasn't happy and wouldn't let me put my hands on her for about two days. The female is rather attached to me, and only really "trusts" me around her. She sleeps with me every night, and I feel some what guilty bringing another cat into the home, mostly because I know having the kitten will take up some of the attention I would otherwise give to her. I don't want to see her suffer further emotional damage, because aside from being rather crazy and not right in the head, she really is a sweet heart. (You just have to get to know her to find that out...)
So... does anyone have any suggestions on dealing with this rather unusual problem? :P
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