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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 02:56 PM
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My little girl whines a lot and doesn't do what she's told.
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RandomKoolzip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:04 PM
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1. What about your kid, though?
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:06 PM
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2. That sucks!
Did she get that job she went for?
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:08 PM
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3. Um, isn't that kind of her job?
:shrug:
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:27 PM
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4. Join the club.
My five year old does the same damn thing.
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 03:29 PM
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5. My little girl said "mudderfucker," the other day.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 04:17 PM
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6. Here are some hints:
Edited on Tue Apr-04-06 04:18 PM by Lydia Leftcoast
1. Don't respond to whining. Tell her that you listen only to nice voices and that whining will not make you say "yes." Never give in to whining just because it gets on your nerves.

2. Be sure to praise her when she does something right.

3. Give her two chances to do what you ask, and if she still doesn't, then she gets a time out.

4. Have few rules, but enforce them consistently. Don't let her run wild and then clamp down only when you can't take it anymore.

(This is the advice my mother the ex-kindergarten teacher gave to me when I worked in a church-run summer program for children. I found that some of the techniques work equally well with college students, e.g. #2 and #4.)

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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 04:18 PM
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7. That's good advice, but this was just a copycat thread.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-04-06 04:23 PM
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8. It's payback time.
Read Lydia Leftcoast's post...Good advice there!

Stop in at 01:01:03 O4/05/06 and have a beer later! :D
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