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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 02:59 PM Original message |
When you know your partner loves you but Isn't in love with you |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
1. There is no dichotomy here |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:08 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. alot of it is curiosity I think |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 10:05 PM Response to Reply #1 |
38. Excellent summary |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
2. It sounds as if you are in a turmoil. |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I think she is embarassed of her feelings |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
5. I think being "in love" |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
6. I would recommend couple's counseling..and FAST |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:21 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. counseling would be great if it would work |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. But you won't know until you try it.. At this point, it seems as though |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:40 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. Thank you for the sound advice |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
9. Maybe she just has a crush? |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
10. Man, do I know what you're talking about. |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
11. I am that woman (not literally - but I live with a man I love but |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:46 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. If nothing your mate can do will make you truly happy |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 06:17 PM Response to Reply #13 |
25. It's true. I don't have a man in the wings, and I think it would be |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
14. Work on the relationship. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
15. I recommend couples counseling immediately |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
16. Weren't we discussing this a few months ago? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:59 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. yes |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 04:03 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Then I'm truly sorry for you. |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 04:08 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. At least being alone I know where i stand |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 09:21 PM Response to Reply #20 |
36. joani |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 04:50 AM Response to Reply #36 |
42. jukes |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 06:04 AM Response to Reply #42 |
43. 'strue |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 01:44 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. again, tis true |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 03:21 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. J_A |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
17. In a detective novel I was reading.... |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 04:00 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. Yeah, simple but effective. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 04:05 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Indeed, my dear bwa....... |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 05:03 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. And that to me my dear Peggy |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
23. You have gotten some great advice here so I'm just popping in to |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-15-06 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
26. My advice: |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 09:36 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. Very sound advice thank you. |
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jzodda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 11:02 AM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Living a Lie does suck! |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
28. easy: |
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Race4Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 02:33 AM Response to Reply #28 |
41. if having more fun is what its about ,then he should |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 03:26 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. R4P |
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Race4Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 11:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. well |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-18-06 01:54 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. if you're offended |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
29. It is very much possible to fix this. |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 12:50 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Grace |
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Fridays Child (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
32. It's called limerence. It happens to everyone and it can last a long time. |
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jzodda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 07:32 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. It sounds to me worse then limerence |
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Fridays Child (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 08:38 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. I'm not reading the OP quite the same way as you but... |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 01:58 AM Response to Reply #34 |
40. are you a professional? |
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jzodda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 09:50 PM Response to Reply #40 |
47. Nah..Its just I have been in a similar situation |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
33. Does it really matter at all? |
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Rowdyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-16-06 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
37. "I can't make you love me" is a hard song to hear.....I wish you strength |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-17-06 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
39. Here's what I would do |
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