I "bounced back" from what I thought was the "love of my life",...

[Just Me]

,...in three weeks!!! :woohoo: My life is busy and full and creative and WHOLE!!!

I think I deserve a huge hurrah (considering this is a shift forward from past experience)!!!! :woohoo: I am on the MOVE and life is so much better without a man who proved to be a person who placed image above substance, perfection above tolerance, power/possession over love, sex over intimacy, blah blah blah!!!

Now, how to go about meeting up with good men.

ADVISE WITH EXPERIENCE AND WISDOM!

:applause:

[Random_Australian]

1. Nice going, good luck, but I have no advice for guy-finding, however

feel free to ask questions.........

[sendero]

2. The cool thing about the "love of you life"....

... is that there can be more than one :) I suppose nobody knows who the love of their life is until their life is over.

[Just Me]

4. True.

True.

Nevertheless, at 43 years young, it would be soooo nice to find someone with whom to build a life, through thick and thin. I'd like that. I figure I've got, maybe (ya' never know) a good 25 years of life-building left before I just get too pooped. Wish I could find a partner in that kind of business,...the emotional/loving,...well, you know,...that kind as a willing investor in something greater than the material.

:shrug:

I know most all of us want the same thing.

(on edit: my mind always works way faster than my fingers,...always*LOL*)

[sendero]

6. Don't give up...

... I didn't find mine until I was 43 :) Seriously.

[Just Me]

7. Thanks, sweetie.

:hug: I have a life, for better or worse, through thick or thin, in sickness or health. Even though I'd like to share that with a committed partner, build a life with another, I have it anyways! Ya' know. :shrug: I have it, my life, no matter what.

Would miss the warm body and sex and intimacy, but I still have a life that will adapt and compensate until I die, amazingly.

Still, :hug: thanks for the shimmer. I am most appreciative and am grateful you found your partner!!!

[crispini]

3. I've had pretty good luck on Craigslist.

At least, it's been interesting so far. :D

[Just Me]

5. I'll check it out. Thanks!!!

:hi: