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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:11 AM Original message |
I am confused, is "bless your heart", an insult or not? |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
1. It's one of those. |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
2. I think some people think you can say anything you want if it is followed by that phrase. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:30 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Agree. I once heard somebody say it means, "You stupid idiot." nt |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:36 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. I've hear that it's the southern way of saying... |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
5. Not necessarily negative |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:02 AM Response to Reply #5 |
9. yes i have seen it used like that, and as an insult. hence my confusion |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:49 PM Response to Reply #5 |
53. A colleague uses the phrase in this context, often. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
6. I think of it as more patronizing than insulting |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:46 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Oh, bless your heart. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:50 AM Response to Reply #7 |
17. Thanks, sweetie. |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
8. Not always. |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
33. You, snarky? Say it isn't so! |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:35 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Well bless your heart, of course it isn't so. |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:36 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. *snicker* she said "Bless your heart!" hehehehe |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:52 PM Response to Reply #35 |
49. LOL bless your heart, you are so easily entertained. |
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deadparrot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:09 AM Response to Original message |
10. I don't you can pin one specific meaning to it. |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:13 AM Response to Original message |
11. I think it depends on the inflection of the voice and the situation |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:15 AM Response to Original message |
12. It's "oh, no, poor thing" most of the time in our house. As in |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:38 AM Response to Original message |
13. I've never thought of it that way |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:45 AM Response to Reply #13 |
14. yah, it depends who's saying it |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-29-07 04:34 PM Response to Reply #13 |
55. My step-father uses it |
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Z_I_Peevey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
15. I use 'bless your heart' directly to someone only |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
16. I'm insulted by the question |
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liberalpress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:17 PM Response to Reply #16 |
50. Bless your heart |
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leftyladyfrommo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
18. Personally, I think it should be banned. Along with ho, bitch and |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
19. Anything can be an insult |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:41 PM Response to Reply #19 |
40. Oh, that's brilliant. |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
20. I guess you haven't got around to the Friday questions |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:57 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. actually yesterday night i got to sleep because i went out wiht my brother for a drink |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:59 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. He's lucky to have a sister |
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Marie26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
23. Yes. |
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Akoto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
24. My grandmother says it to me all the time. |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
25. Usually. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
26. Not at all, but it can be said with sarcasm to make it so. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:44 PM Response to Reply #26 |
42. Good explanation. I grew up using it as an expression of compassion. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
27. no...never--- |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
28. You would know if you live in Texas :) |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
29. No.. it means you have a kind soul |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
30. If you can't tell, it probably is. |
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BluePatriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
31. Usually a backhanded compliment sort of thing |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
32. Depends on the context and how much you hate Christians. |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:37 PM Response to Original message |
36. yes, it's totally an insult |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:50 PM Response to Reply #36 |
43. bless yours too! |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:52 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Hey! |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:55 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. aww did i upset you? |
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liontamer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
37. depends on context |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:42 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. look who showed up! |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
38. No, but "Bless your pea-pickin' heart" might be. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
39. My mother said it all the time, kind of a congratulatory thing |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
45. You don't know? Why, bless your heart! n/t |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
47. First, let's understand its proper pronunciation |
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GalleryGod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
48. Better to stay confused. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
51. It Depends on the use and the intent |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 10:28 PM Response to Original message |
52. It is and it isn't! In the south, If I were to say bless your heart to you, then |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-28-07 11:07 AM Response to Reply #52 |
54. i get you! |
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